I am intelligent, warm, sometimes opinionated, sometimes goofy. I am not looking for Mr Right, more like Mr Right Now, but that doesn't mean I am closed off to more long term or serious situations if things headed in that direction. I am a Big Beautiful Woman, active and well kept up. If BBW's aren't your thing, better look elsewhere. I am looking for something casual, friends with benefits kind of thing, someone to goof around with and share some good times in the sack.

My Ideal Person I would like to find a guy who is tall ( remember Im 5'11'' ) and kind. Old fashioned in the niceties department, but not at all prudish. A guy who can tell me a good dirty joke but can mix in with whatever company we choose to be around. I like a guy with a sense of humor and someone who enjoys a good conversation. Sex is important, and for me openmindedness, passion, and chemistry are the biggies. Best scenario for me is a guy who becomes one of my best friends.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I will share one that actually came true. I had met a Dom online
and we had seen each other a few times and I told him about
a fantasy I had (obviously the fantasy part lies in
that I don't get hurt and actually want it to happen).
One night he came into my home while I was sleeping, I had
no idea he was going to do this or even come over that night.
My first realization that he was there was when I went to
turn over, somehow "felt" someone there, and
saw him come at me from a chair that he had sat in next to my
bed. He jumped onto me from behind, wrapped his arm around
my neck with his hand tightly over my mouth. It only took
a second or two to realize it was him but that was all I needed
for the panic and following adrenaline to kick in really
hard. He tore my t shirt and panties I slept in off of me and
took me from behind with his arm kept around me and over my
mouth the whole time, muttering how he was going to f***
me and I better keep quiet and there was nothing I could do
about it. I was whimpering and squirming and straining
under him and it was really hot. Afterward he got and left
without staying or saying a word until he called me the next
morning. wow.....definitely not for everyone and
only after the trust has been established, but it was fantastic.
( Please dont blast me for this, I am very much against
in its real
form or anything else that isnt by mutual consent. )

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, Im not really all about the public thing, but anywhere private

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

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