I’m a Dominate male, who likes travel, food and conversation, how do I describe my idea of a Dom/sub or Dom/slave relationship that I’m looking for? 1)First I’m dominate in that I’m assertive in my desires and like to have my way in the bedroom and be held in respect in the home. 2)I believe a true Dom/Sub or Dom/Slave relationship has to have a root in some sort of trust and takes some time to develop to its full potential. 3)As a Dom it does not give me the right to use unrestrained physical violence or abuse. 4)If a woman is my Sub or slave then I become responsible for her wellbeing and to be sure she is properly cared for physically and emotionally so we may both develop deeper more meaningful lives as a Dom or slave. 5)I myself have a very strong sex drive with no known limits except for those limits imposed by law making them illegal as I have a job and commitments financially to care for and do not like the idea of going to pri for a crime sexual or otherwise. 6)Then there are also the mental aspects of Domination and submission the many never touch as they do not know how to or have never taken the time to explore it. Those I want to explore also. In many ways I’m trying to say I’m Dominant yet respectful, normally a kind master not given over to anger but more a steadfast assertiveness in the relationship with room for both to grow and explore. Life is not all in the bedroom, jobs, friends, family the lifestyle has to accommodate all these things. .

My Ideal Person What am I looking for, well a long term relationship so trust can grow and we can delve deeply into the lifestyle.
I’m interested in someone who desires to be a full time SUB or Slave not just some weekend or weeknight play once a week or month.
I’m interested in someone who can commit to a dom and say he is it for at least a few months maybe a lifetime.
You must have already taken care of yourself physically I work out in the gym 3 to 5 times a week I’m not perfect but am in shape. At least the same is expected.

I’m also interested in occasional travel companions or companions for long weekend play. And of course until I find a compatible SUB/Slave like any horny man I’m interested in just about any sex I can get for those just looking for fun.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Like lots of different bands

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall, Outer space

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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