I've been a widower for 16 years. Enough is enough! I want to find a per who wants to have fun, is openminded and above all, honest! I might not like the truth, but I can live with it. I want a buddy too. Someone I can share things with, but who respects my space. The worst thing that can happen is that we find a new friend, and that's not a bad thing.

My Ideal Person I would like to find a person who enjoys sex as much as I do. Long foreplay is fun. I don't do head games and expect the same. Say what you think. If you can't stand the answer, don't ask the question. Not in to pain or wierdness. I believe in exploration, but there need to be mutual limits.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Beach Boys, The Doobies, Mindi Abair, Enya, Spyro Gyra, Jimi

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Lisa Edelstein {House} or Melina Kanakariedes [CSI NY]

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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