I'm here... you're here... well since we're both here, let's start by talking, and just see where we want to go... I'd like to meet you and get to know you, as a friend, and then we can just see where it goes from there. I'm looking for someone to meet up with occasionally for some fun. Maybe we like each other enough to spend some time together outside of the bedroom errr, wait, sex doesn't have to be restricted to just the bedroom, does it? So maybe we spend time together doing other things... dinner... a movie... a weekend away, somewhere... NYC... a beach... Maybe something else... it depends what we're in the mood for. I don't know - there's a world full of possibilities, let's explore them together and see where we want to take this! I'm not sure if this is the right place for me to be looking, honestly Im not a player I dont have any desire to see a different woman every night. Its so much better to have one person to get to know. Lets get to know each other as friends and see where it goes personally, I think that sex is better when we know each other, and feel a connection with each other, and appreciate each other emotionally, mentally, and yes, physically, too. Someday I want to find one woman to build a friendship with, maybe even a relationship well see how it goes, and well see if we both want that. Im not saying that I want to meet you one day, spend the night with you, and then be picking out rings the next day Im not ready for that much of a relationship right now. Someday, maybe... But I really am not the kind of guy that wants to just do a onetime thing and never talk to you again. Im a pretty easygoing guy, and Im relatively dramafree I think Im 99 dramafree, but I dont think ANYONE can really say theyre 100 dramafree if they do, theyre lying!. I have a variety of interests that keep me busy sports, school, gym, reading, etc oh, and theres work, too. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. Or the day, if we choose to have a daytime date. When I go out, I go with the flow, and end up where I end up. The philosophy I live by is always keep striving. Goals are checkpoints, not finish lines. To me, traveling means finding a stimulating companion and making plans as we go. Though there are a few trips I want to plan that would really be better to plan in advance I want to go to Hawaii, but that39s better to do a little preplanning. I39m not changing my life, I39m just trying to make it more interesting.So, if this sounds like something you might be interested in, lets talk!

My Ideal Person My ideal person hmmm... well, I dont have one set type. I really like to consider the whole package, the whole person. I want someone who is mature enough to be serious when its right, but also can be young and playful when its right. I want someone who can be discreet no, not necessarily because were hiding anything Im not, but if you are well, Im not telling, but because what we do is our business, and we dont need to share it with the world. Oh, sure maybe there comes a time when we want to do something naughty, and then maybe we are hiding something a store dressing room a hotel poolhot tub... but thats different! What else can I say Ive looked at the suggestions they give here thats really no help. But in case you care 1 Im definitely straight, with no interest in other men never have, never will so if thats your thing, good luck finding it, but it will be with someone else...2 Im not really what I would consider kinky, but then, isnt that up to everyones own interpretation We can decide what isis not kinky for us later...3 Taboos in the bedroom well, Im pretty open minded, but again, we can decide later besides do they really think that if we have taboos in the bedroom they dont apply outside of the bedroom Hey, lets have sex in the dining room, so we can do that thing that we cant do in the bedroom! Eh... no......4 I think the best place to have sex is well, wait, is that a trick question You mean theres only one5 Extramarital affairs... well, I definitely wont be bringing that into the equation! I understand that some people want to go this route and thats fine, but Im not gonna run out and get married just so I can have an extramarrital affair!6 One sexual fantasy Ive always had is... hmm again, just one Finding one woman who I really enjoy being with, and she really enjoys being with me, and we have a great time when were together... isnt that enough of a fantasy7 One night stands... I think I covered this already that just doesnt give enough time to fully appreciate what we can achieve together! 8 During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to your moans and sighs of pleasure I dont know what else to say I dont really pay a lot of attention to the background noise...9 Sensuality... yes, its important10 Foreplay is great... penetration is great... having preconceived notions of exactly how things should go is not so great! Scripting and choreographing a sexual encounter just seems too demanding lets make it up as we go and decide what works for us!

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