Mature BBW. If that's not your body preference, just fine. We all have our turn ons. For example, I Iike tall men with sharp wit and the ability to have a fun conversation. I like kissing (a good kisser), hearing filthy talk, and post-coital tenderness. I like a man who understands that even though this is a hook-up site, sex is more fun when you don't treat me like a hole. You have to start with my brain to get in my pants.

My Ideal Person I recently lost the best FWB I've ever had. He had good availability, liked to hang out, 420, watch movies, eat my cooking, cuddle, and of course, have long bouts of naughty fun. Ideally, you're confident, fun to be with, not interested in anything complicated or committed and know that foreplay is important even with a sure thing. You're 5'9" or taller, aren't a Trumper, are fun to have a meal with, talk to and hang out with even when not rolling around naked with me.

I guess you'd say I'm looking for few times a month boyfriend -- like a fairly frequent fling. Someone who wants all the good stuff from a relationship without the commitment, emotional investment, or drama. You don't mind not meeting my family and friends and know the boundaries of a FWB situation. Real friends complete with respect and positive regard. You want a connection but not an attachment. Are you that guy?