Most of my friends would say that I'm easy-going and witty, once I get to know you, but I can be painfully shy at first. I'm trying to get into better shape; I do walk around wherever I can, but it's a work in progress. I want to like the bar and party scenes more than I do, but I'm really not naturally a social person and it's cost me before. I need someone who can guide me, maybe drag me, to fun. Including in the bedroom. Once I'm comfortable though, my true kinky and amorous sides can come through. I'm interested in various aspects of BDSM, and even multiple partners experience, but right now, I just want to connect with someone, preferably sexually, and if we can connect intellectually and emotionally too, well, we'll see what happens.

My Ideal Person I wish I had a really good answer for this.... I guess body-wise, I prefer big boobs, and I don't love super-skinny girls, but it's not a dealbreaker. I just want somebody who's assured in their looks, carefree and extroverted in their personality and sexuality, and challenges me on a mental level as well. If they happen to like wearing leather occasionally, that's a plus. Mostly, I just want somebody who can make up for where I lack and not be a complete ditz and makes me feel like a better person while being around her. (Shrugs) I told ya I don't have a great answer.

I don't know, can I have a high-minded intellectual conversation on politics or art or science or the socioeconomic struggles or our world or whatever notable topic while enjoying Starbucks that will then turn into us going down on each other in the nearest field or alley, before we start up talking again? Whichever answer is better, I guess.