I'm a retired widower who's financially sound looking for people in the Schertz/NE San Antonio/NB area to get to know and have fun with both in and out of the bedroom. I am a relaxed, laid back kind of guy. I'm not into the bar scene. I like to go to concerts, go out dining from time to time, but I also enjoy hot nights at home enjoying each other in as many ways as we can think of. I’m very open minded and respect limits. I'm honest and caring, and have been told I wear my heart on my sleeve. Willing to try most anything at least once, except blood and scat. When I am playing my goal is to make sure whomever I'm with is pleased. If I can’t make you feel good then it’s no fun for me. If I flirt with you it means I'm very interested in you. Either your profile, your pics, or both caught my eye and I would really like to get to know you. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures or videos in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. To: Sydney University and all other institutions using this or any Passion site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone to be intimate with as well as meet outside the bedroom. Someone I might be able to meet on a regular basis and not just a one and done (though that's not out of the picture). Let's be honest, this site is geared toward sex, but if it becomes more than that, all the better.

Someone who is up front and tells it like it is. If not interested then say so, don't leave a person in the lurch. I like people who are open minded, willing to try new things, and who like to have fun.

I don't like liars or fakes. If you make an appointment to meet then show up or let the other person know you can't make it. I won't leave you waiting and not show up without any reason.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

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