(This has become an issue of late, so let me clarify - I'm seeking real connections with people: chats online, emails, texting, phone conversations, public and private meets. If your modus operandi is to make promises and dangle reality out as a carrot pending some heretofore undiscussed future paradigm, just walk now. No interest in that bullshit AT ALL. I don't care if I'm missing the opportunity of a lifetime, if you can't be real and front street with me then it just doesn't exist in the first place, your protestations to the contrary notwithstanding.) Also note - I am attached to my best friend in the world, but she IDs as autochorissexual, and recognizes my need for physical intimacy by being supportive of my seeking friends with benefits. I'm not looking to supplant anyone's position in a relationship, nor am I seeking that for my own. But I do believe in polyamory and support everyone in their chosen dynamics including my own. WARNING: Any and all law enforcement agents/ agencies, institutions (University/College), media personnel, and/or individuals, who are using this site, or its associated sites for projects, articles, website, or any other reason you do not have permission from me to use any portion of my profile nor my pictures, in any form or forum, both current and or future. If you have done so, or do so in the future, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. I am constantly amazed how the circles of my life both expand and concentrically overlap the further I progress in life. Many of the members here on FetLife I know in the "RealWorld". A few I consider friends. Yet, amongst those circles, the overlapping rings, the ripples, the concentric natures, never seem to cross in the manner that might expand fulfillment. Hopefully my entrance here will change some of that. I am a late-40s Dominant seeking the same thing every other human being strives for in their lives: security, comfort, and meaningful connection with those who reciprocate mutual interests, feelings, and for whom my gifts stabilize, support and grow them in the same way they grow me. I've been asked to describe my style or brand of sexual expression. If I had to, I would best typify it as Compassionate Dominance. I am the man that most every woman passes by on first glance as quiet, unassuming, almost shy or uninterested. And then, the glance back happens... and our eyes meet. And the sense of the depth and power I hold, yet do not choose to exercise, becomes apparent. And you turn back, to engage me in conversation. And it is in that next few minutes that the seeds are planted, and a lifetime of depth and fulfillment for us all begins. I am the second choice that most women make, and on being with me, go "why the hell did I ever let him get away the first time??" My formative years were inspired in equal parts by Walt Disney, Chuck Jones, Jim Henson, George Lucas, Gene Roddenberry, J.R.R. Tolkein and David Copperfield (the illusionist, not the waif). I have digested, and can regurgitate at will, great swaths of popular culture, yet am not unmoved by a sunrise, or a single flower on a grassy field, or the sting of cold spray on my cheek... I keep in my heart the soul and passion of the artist (theatrical by choice; I found the stage at age 4, and in many ways never left it), and am adept in both creating said fantasy realm from scratch, or supplementing the existing scene. That said, my finances and transit are somewhat limited at the moment; this too will change, but it is an issue for some, hence it is mentioned here upfront, in the spirit of full disclosure. The financial side of my life may never bloom in the current sociopolitical environment; many of the moral and ethical steps (or lack thereof) one must take to achieve monetary stability I find myself increasingly ethically unable to accept. I've willingness to work productively for fair wage, but cannot and will not abide by situational morals and ethics to achieve over anyone. This, too is an issue for some; again, mentioned in the interest of full disclosure. My own life has taught me first-hand the value of one's health, both physical and mental/spiritual. I am in the midst of correcting a congenital defect that, unchecked, would have taken my life, and has to this point limited me in ways I was not aware of till very recently. I respect those that have gone before with similar issues, and have great happiness for those who recognize their own gift of health. I seek a connection with The One, or The Many, with whom my soul identifies, and for whom my addition in their lives fulfills a Greater Order. I am The Friend, The Confidante, The Lover, The Scoundrel, The Daredevil, The Father, The Sage, The , The Disciplinarian, The Muse, and The Raconteur all in one... ... and I look forward to making The Connection with You.

My Ideal Person Great eyes, smile, personality, polyamorous, hellacious sexual appetite and unlimited sexual interests (any and everything) who's into me as much as Im into them, and willing to explore from the get go.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Inflicting barnyard adventures on a willing female partner...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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