First and foremost, I am vaccinated! Add Covid to the list of contractible ailments I have no plans to catch. Now, let's get to the basics now that that is out of the way. I am a straight black professional male, mid 40s,from the Charlotte area. I work hard and play harder when the opportunity presents. I am well-educated,. well-groomed, well-traveled and to the point. I keep myself presentable, with short black hair, brown eyes, great smile. I am 5'7, average build and depending on the situation, could be in a suit one minute drinking a glass of moscato, pinot or sangria and jeans the next with a Bud or PBR. It's just who I am. My musical taste vary, just as my perception of the world. I don't smoke or do drugs, but have no issues if you do. I drink socially, but never to excess. And as I hinted above, am disease free. So why am I here? Simply put, I am looking for that friend (s) that could turn into a beneficial situation. I am not saying that it will. But who knows until you dip the toes into the water. I believe in chemistry for the connection. I am not looking for a relation per se. I am seeking that connection where we have the utmost respect for each other, value our private lives and have no issues saying what is on our minds. I am not looking to change your lives, just make it that much more interesting. Yes, there could be sex involved. I have met a few great friends over the years here. Those friendships still exist, even if we are no longer physical for various reasons. Nothing bad. Relocating can be a real drain on a discrete connection that last for years. Also, you will notice that I have pictures that are covered. I will happily share once a connection is made. Just a precaution. I am discrete and many here seem to enjoy stealing pictures and claiming as their own.

My Ideal Person I am seeking that connection. First things first, I am wanting a woman who wants a man who loves to eat pussy. Being blunt, but hey, I love eating pussy. I mean damn, "My face would look great between your legs!". Not afraid to have my chin glistening. Second, I am looking for confidence. Confidence is sexy as hell. Third you want to explore and learn yourself. I will be your tour guide. I love toys, have great stamina, a 7 inch cock and love making a woman have as many orgasms as she can stand. I am a romantic on top of a freak. Lunch, dinner, breakfast or drinks, when permitted is fun. But I can make it even better. Let's just say my mind just works on ways to please and pleasure. I am also seeking that connection that likes to make it fun. I love traveling. My friend that I was discussing above and I have taken trips just to see and experience the world in our way. And yes, we were careful and discrete. And third, you should love being pleased, pleasured and pampered. I love being a romantic when the opportunity presents. I love making things interesting. I am one who loves giving a good massage that will send chills down your spin while making you feel like you are the only woman on earth. Yeah this is a sex site, but a guy has to be confident and comfortable with whom he meets.

So hit me up if you are comfortable being who you are, confident, outgoing, discrete and wanting that excitement factor.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Attending a swingers party - had opps in past but never came
fruition. Taking a partner on a no holds bar romantic and
sensual getaway.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Kate Beckinsale - she is a confident woman knows that she is sexy Sandra Bullock - fun, smart and sexy is a triple
treat <br><br> Jennifer Lopez - its the attitude that she doesn't care
what others think of her Kat Dennings - Confident in her
curves, raspy voice and take charge attitude

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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