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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Submissive Dom????? - 8/11/2006

I've met this woman that's very dominant in her day to day life, but totally submissive in the bedroom. It's weird to see this strong woman melt into putty when the clothes come off. Pleasuring

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
At A Loss..... - 7/30/2006

It seems as though all too frequently when a woman finds out that I want to date just one woman at a time they quit responding. I make it clear that I'm not asking for their hand, but rather that i

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Jealousy...... - 7/28/2006

I have a fuck buddy that gets jealous knowing I'm looking for 'one' I cherish her as a friend most, but I'm conserned I might lose a friend if I do find 'one'. Have any of you been

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Coke.... - 7/13/2006

I have a friend that had a coke habbit before she moved here. When I met her she wasn't using, but I know she has recently. We had a great friendship and could talk about anything. A dream girl, bu

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Delimas.... - 7/9/2006

Ever catch yourself needing advice, but can't ask here? Some stuff is cool, but when it gets beyond 'cock size' or ' why don't they respond' you really need a good friend/ best frie

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Time of month???? - 7/3/2006

I have noticed that at certain times of the month I'll get 60%(or more) response to my Emails and then I'll go three weeks and get 0 response. I've also noticed it when I'm chatting with people. I'

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Male Intuition... - 6/30/2006

I have a new friend that's attached, works in the same office and lives two buildings down in the apt complex... She has told me from the first time we got together drinking beer that her 'other' a

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
I Like you.....????? - 6/20/2006

More than once I've run into the situation where I've told someone that I like them and they've esentially told me to back off. Now I haven't envisioned picket fences and day care in our future, b

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Linking a profile.... - 6/16/2006

This is just a thought... I know many people here think it's bad judgment and the police would pick up on it, but is it possible to link to a profile in question? That is provided the question is v

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Cybersex Spice... - 6/13/2006

I have a wonderful friend that I have cybersex with on occasion. Unfortunately we're running out of things to talk about. I've had great fun with other women, but I can't get this one to the 'fanta

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Insecurities and Technology - 6/7/2006

When I was younger and dating, before IM's, internet, cell phones and pagers we depended on the good ole phone and face to face meetings. When niether was available we got on about our day without

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Going Steady????? - 5/31/2006

I really like the lady I'm seeing now, but I'm unsure how to approach her with being exclusive. What words do you use? Is it stupid? Did this shit go out with High School? Yes, I'm 40 and fucking

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
The Mind Blowing Third Member... - 5/6/2006

OK, so I'm going to beat a dead ...again...But maybe in another context... It's understandable that women don't like pecker shots. I've seen beautiful pussies on women that I'd rather not have see

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Am I Real???? - 5/3/2006

About 3/4 or more of the women I have chatted with from here have made the comment "Are you real?" Not necessarily in the first Email, but at some point I always hear(read) it. I've done everyth

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Color or Falic??? - 5/1/2006

I was watching a rather attractive lady on cam earlier and all was well 'till she brought out this 'toy' to play with. Not only was it much (MUCH) larger than I could ever hope to be it was also a

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Q For Divorced People.... - 4/30/2006

If you were to meet someone that had all the good qualities of your ex spouse and none of the criticle flaws that led to your divorce, would you date them or run like hell?? Been chatting with a l

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Bra Sizes...... - 4/24/2006

There are so many profiles of women out there that don't have pictures. Well, I try to gauge 'average'or'atheletic' women by the bra size. Unfortunately I've learned from past experience that I hav

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
A Woman With .... - 4/12/2006

As with many things that seem to nogo with me these days this may not happen either but.... I've asked out a woman that has /. I'm not sure yet... Anyway I've heard before that the man should pro

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
It's Just Pictures..... - 3/27/2006

Just bear with me for a minute... Nearly twenty years ago when I got married my new bride expressed a displeasure with me keeping photos of girls that I had dated previously. Well, to show my love

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Is Looking At Porn Cheating?? - 3/25/2006

I was chatting with a lady yesturday and we got on the subject of looking at porn and masturbating. She thinks it's esentially cheating on your partner. I think it's just stimulation and helps keep

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Something works... - 3/23/2006

I've seen two people post here and have a negative score. There is something attractive from the score. Does it matter beyond usless trivia, well no, but it's still something to occupy an idle mind

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Dejavous.... - 3/21/2006

Do any of you believe in dejavous and find yourself planning your day around it? Either hoping for it to happen or tryiing to avoid it. I know it happens at any time, but for the balance is what I'

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
I misspelled.... - 3/20/2006

It's dysthymic...It's esentially full time depression.... Sorry... Charlie

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
True Advice This Time...... - 3/20/2006

For the past month and a half I've been chatting with this woman and absolutely adore the chats. However during our chatting she learned of me having dystymic disorder and I learned of her having h

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
The Silly Score Again.... - 3/19/2006

Can anyone with a bit more math background than I have please explaine how, and why they can and see fit to calculate the score to the 1/10, 000 of a point? I made it through calculus 2 by the ha

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
JAPANESEGIRLSWINGER.COM Profile, I Do and Friends - 3/16/2006

This is for the single people that may one day find The One...... At what point in a relationship would you give up your activities here and delete your profile? What do you suppose would happen to

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scuttlebut 57 M
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Bad Ideas That Do Work.... - 3/14/2006

I've been chatting with this woman for almost 18 mos. now and she never would meet me because I was a nice guy. Well, I've been through the 'Your a nice guy, but....' shit like all guys and have wa

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Long Gone Songs.... - 3/11/2006

I've been heartbroken in the past and found that loud music and liquor help soooth the pain. I'm now just a beer drinker, but the music.... I have 3 favorite songs that, well ok 4, that help get me

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scuttlebut 57 M
40  questions
Talk Dirty To Me..... - 3/6/2006

I've seen this on several profiles as well as women just looking for erotic chat or Email. How do, or should I aproach these? Start out with something naughty or gain thier attention by showing an

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scuttlebut 57 M
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Just For One Person.... - 3/5/2006

This was going to be much longer but it got to looking goofy so here's the condensed version... How many of you have paid to be a member of this site or another just to Email one person hoping to a

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