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cinnamon0133 55F  
3101 posts
12/12/2019 12:48 pm
WTf Is Going On with My Adult ?


My youngest got her test results this morning and is diagnosed with lupus. I know very little about lupus other than it's autoimmune. I must research.
My oldest is very sick and has been for 2 weeks now. I keep calling ambulances and they keep sending her home because they can't find the problem.
Every morning she wakes up with severe abdominal pain and vomiting blood (a fair of blood 1/2 a cup to 3/4 of a cup of blood) she can't keep food down for long. For the last week she has has blood and small blood clots in her stool.
I'm very worried about her. She isn't the type to press doctors for answers. The next time I call an ambulance for her I have a friend who will babysit my grandson and I'm going to go to the hospital with her. I will raise HELL, if need be and we will get answers!!
Yes, she is an adult but she is still my , this needs to be diagnosed!

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cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 10:52 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    wow, what kind of hospital sends someone home who is throwing up blood?
This is the only hospital in my city, from now on we will go to the next city over

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cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 10:48 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Of course you want answers. I hope they listen
They have to get her diagnosed!

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mc_justmc 59M  
5348 posts
12/12/2019 6:11 pm

wow, what kind of hospital sends someone home who is throwing up blood?


cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 4:40 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Oh C I am so sorry for all this coming down on you!!! Personally I think your daughter needs to be seen by an internal medicine specialist ASAP, not the hospital ER ( maybe the CA insurance makes o go there??).
    Have they even tried to rule out a severe bleeding ulcer of an esophogeal tear?
    This long and continued definitely needs immediate looking at. If I were mother I would not be waiting for the next ambulance ride- I'd be finding a physician today. I am so thinking of you and this awful news
It's a cluster fuck, my hands are tied by my daughter.
It's Riley who was diagnosed with lupus.
It's Callista who is bleeding. I agree she needs to be seen by a internist. However since she is 21i have no say unless she gives either verbal or written permission to medical staff. She has always given permission before, this time she is really scared. She is so much like me I KNOW exactly what she is doing and thinking. She is hoping that if she waits long enough it will go away but it's scaring her, with the pain being bad enough that it's pushing her to see a doctor. They have done many tests and have ruled out ulcers and rips anywhere. They did a GYN examine. They did ultrasounds and xrays, blood tests checked her lungs,liver kidneys and can't find anything wrong. Unless she gives me permission I can't do a damn thing and she isn't quite there yet.

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pocogato12 67F  
31175 posts
12/12/2019 4:09 pm

Oh C I am so sorry for all this coming down on you!!! Personally I think your daughter needs to be seen by an internal medicine specialist ASAP, not the hospital ER ( maybe the CA insurance makes o go there??).
Have they even tried to rule out a severe bleeding ulcer of an esophogeal tear?
This long and continued definitely needs immediate looking at. If I were mother I would not be waiting for the next ambulance ride- I'd be finding a physician today. I am so thinking of you and this awful news

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citizen4722 62M  
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12/12/2019 3:40 pm

Of course you want answers. I hope they listen


cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 2:26 pm

    Quoting Granny872:
    Even if you go with her, they'll probably tell you that they can only share information if she gives permission. She's an adult, they have no obligation to give you anything unless you're her Medical POA or she otherwise signs off.

    Good luck.
That's true and not a problem, if I'm at the hospital with her, her first words to the doctor is always "talk to my mother" lol

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cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 2:23 pm

    Quoting nostalgic68:
    Hospitals today contract out departments, especially ER.

    I woke up in the back of an ambulance two summers ago. Was in ER for under 3hrs. Glued my cheek back up, sent me home. $2500 for the ambulance. $2800 ER. $265 for the dr to dab me with glue. Then a month later the hospital sent me a bill for $22,000. I laughed. Turned it all over to the VA. I guess they paid for the other bills but they only gave the hospital $300+.

    Sorry to hear about your girls. That blood thing is serious. Keep us up todate.
I am Canadian, we don't pay for medical care, at least not very much money. You were charged $2500 for a ambulance, I'm charged $40 for a ambulance. I don't know how people afford to get sick or hurt in the stetes

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Granny872 67F  
1727 posts
12/12/2019 1:52 pm

Even if you go with her, they'll probably tell you that they can only share information if she gives permission. She's an adult, they have no obligation to give you anything unless you're her Medical POA or she otherwise signs off.

Good luck.

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nostalgic68 60M
321 posts
12/12/2019 1:47 pm

Hospitals today contract out departments, especially ER.

I woke up in the back of an ambulance two summers ago. Was in ER for under 3hrs. Glued my cheek back up, sent me home. $2500 for the ambulance. $2800 ER. $265 for the dr to dab me with glue. Then a month later the hospital sent me a bill for $22,000. I laughed. Turned it all over to the VA. I guess they paid for the other bills but they only gave the hospital $300+.

Sorry to hear about your girls. That blood thing is serious. Keep us up todate.


cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 1:40 pm

    Quoting HAMONMAN:
    JBH ER I presume ?

    You need to be there with her during those visits, otherwise they shunt patients out as fast as they can.
Yes, it's very pretty now that millions and millions of dollars was spent redoing the cosmetics of the hospital is great!! Unfortunately the quality of the staff and the care given is still a joke!!!

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cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 1:36 pm

    Quoting mph106969:
    I would go with her. I hope all works out for you,my prayers are for you today
Thank you very much

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cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 1:34 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I hear you! 👍 Do it! Otherwise they'll keep messing around.
It's pathetic! You have seen me raise HELL on here, picture what I can, will and have done for my kids! I am the definition of MOTHER BEAR!
The ONLY reason I don't go with her is my 2 1/2 year old grandson. I babysit when she goes to the hospital, he is non verbal and NO ONE babysits him but me!

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HAMONMAN 60M
9004 posts
12/12/2019 1:10 pm

JBH ER I presume ?

You need to be there with her during those visits, otherwise they shunt patients out as fast as they can.


mph106969 55M  
65 posts
12/12/2019 1:09 pm

I would go with her. I hope all works out for you,my prayers are for you today


Paulxx001 62M
13811 posts
12/12/2019 1:03 pm

I hear you! 👍 Do it! Otherwise they'll keep messing around.

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cinnamon0133 55F  
18277 posts
12/12/2019 12:49 pm

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