Self Love - Self Care  

Naughtypursuit 51F  
1304 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am
Self Love - Self Care


I some times deal in traumatic events. During and after those events we are required to attend counselling.

In my most recent event in speaking with a new in-training counsellor and his mentor he asked me what I do to engage in self -care. Having been at this a while and no longer feeling the need to hold back I told him that yes I do engage in self care I masturbate regularly during dealing with these events. It helps put things in perspective, it calms me and helps me sleep. I go on to say that when I have had a partner then I engage in frequent sex.

The two counsellors look at each other and I can see the counsellor in training is turning red and a bit flustered and unsure of what to say.

The mentor takes over and states that sex is one of the normal ways people deal with trauma and in certain circumstances is quite healthy. He then goes on to explain that self care is a little more involved...

Ooops...guess sex was on my mind.

Naughtypursuit 51F  
2186 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am


sexyldy1000 58F  
3459 posts
2/6/2019 6:10 am

Congrats to you for feeling so comfortable and self-assured that you were able to be so honest. Bet your colleagues never expected you to be so revealing 😊

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:28 pm:
One of the blessings of getting older...

hogknot 53M
770 posts
2/6/2019 6:12 am

Sex is a good way to deal with traumatic incidents. I will have to try that


mc_justmc 59M  
4959 posts
2/6/2019 6:12 am

Wish I could have seen the looks on their faces, I'd bet it was priceless. I bet they both went home and "self-cared" themselves thinking about that!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
I know I did

hrdallnght4u 62M
5050 posts
2/6/2019 6:15 am

I think sex is a good cure for many things...

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
I hear it cures the common cold.....

tinroofrusted59 60M
591 posts
2/6/2019 6:21 am

lol, I can obviously see why when you had a partner why you would be involved in frequent sex to alleviate any stress! On a serious note, your point is very valid. If you look at any of the historic events that were traumatic, ie: missile crisis, wars.....there was always a spike in births 9 months and more afterwards....when we have traumatic events our primal instincts is to procreate so that our gene pool lives on. I think north korea is planning to nuke north bay, I will be there shortly


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
Meet me in the underground bunker...

txslowpoke 65M  
2419 posts
2/6/2019 6:25 am

wishing one day you would do some self care in texas... lol


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:30 pm:
I just might, I have had it with winter

charmer961 60M  
14436 posts
2/6/2019 6:44 am

Self care doesn't mean taking care of things yourself?

I love it.


rockhard_on 98M

2/6/2019 6:49 am

Sex is on my mind a lot, too, and I think that that is normal and healthy!


boobwhisperer69 56M
5315 posts
2/6/2019 8:13 am

POW! You blew their mind! Would have liked to seen the look on their faces!


ltrskr 71M
3434 posts
2/6/2019 8:53 am

    Quoting tinroofrusted59:
    lol, I can obviously see why when you had a partner why you would be involved in frequent sex to alleviate any stress! On a serious note, your point is very valid. If you look at any of the historic events that were traumatic, ie: missile crisis, wars.....there was always a spike in births 9 months and more afterwards....when we have traumatic events our primal instincts is to procreate so that our gene pool lives on. I think north korea is planning to nuke north bay, I will be there shortly
The end is near, Repent at my house.........!


mutualbenefit69 44M
110 posts
2/6/2019 9:24 am

i agree, masturbation and sex is used fro stress relief. I also find that orgasming before bed does help me sleep better


Wonder167 52F  
3499 posts
2/6/2019 9:59 am

I also think it's great you felt comfortable in sharing your idea of self care. lol Maybe that can be added to protocol along with illustrations. lol

Life is like a camera. Focus on what's important.
Capture the good times.
Develop from the negatives and if things don't work out,
Take another shot!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:32 pm:
Hmmm I wonder if they would give me a prescription....

Tmptrzz 56F  
62076 posts
2/6/2019 10:26 am

Naughty, such a great read hun and you should of gotten a picture of his face. As I am sure it was priceless, and we all have to do self care when we face traumatic events that occur in our lives, well said hun..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


XHamburgDave 75M  
8781 posts
2/6/2019 11:47 am

LMAO Jo Honesty is the Best Policy, loved to have seen their faces

my Friend


BiggLala 47F  
26441 posts
2/6/2019 12:18 pm

In the category of 'didn't see THAT coming', score:
Naughtypursuit - 1
Training counselor and Mentor - 0
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VinnFromTheBlock 59M
555 posts
2/6/2019 12:19 pm

What a coincidence ,,SO DO I!!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:32 pm:
Lol I am sure you do...

BiggLala 47F  
26441 posts
2/6/2019 12:21 pm

In the category of 'didn't see THAT coming', score:
Naughtypursuit - 1
Training counselor and Mentor - 0

Although, the Mentor gets an honorable mention for continuing the session after picking up his jaw from the floor. πŸ…
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Paulxx001 62M
9958 posts
2/6/2019 2:02 pm

Oops is right... Lol 😁
So.. Inner monologue disappears for you as you get older? Kool.. Glad to know I'm not alone . 😊

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


drinksprite62 56M
1589 posts
2/6/2019 5:41 pm

You are not wrong.
Good for you in being open and honest.


azriel1970 48M
25854 posts
2/6/2019 6:05 pm

LOL you and think so alike. Honestly I probably masturbate far too much. It is how I deal with a lot of things....


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 7:31 pm:
How can it every be too much...lol

lordjack1957 61M  

2/6/2019 9:23 pm

Great minds think alike Milady... take good care of yourself!

LJ


author51 56F  
77590 posts
2/7/2019 1:46 am

It is nice as we get older that we become more open about sex, self care and any other aspect where we can talk freely about it, even with our co workers.. Kudos to you for telling it like it is..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


wantaplay8 66M
5607 posts
2/7/2019 4:08 am

LOL...got them,,,,one counselor is well adjusted the other needs some counseling. Well I do like your methods of pushing those difficult visions out of your head.
Sex can be a hobby...at least I think so.


lindoboy100 56M
20227 posts
2/7/2019 11:43 am

Oops.....not quite a slip of the tongue, more so a slip of the finger......

I always knew there was more to you McSuit......ye're a wee bit special it seems!!

Wake up and hold yer noses.........


voyeur2017 56M
587 posts
2/7/2019 12:48 pm

That's why I visit this site often..... the need for self -care ~~~ ....happy to read you are well adjusted ~~


CumsDeep 58M
59 posts
2/10/2019 9:55 am

Ouch!!!....brb... gotta go masturbate


Evocules 50M  
1041 posts
2/10/2019 8:09 pm

Self pleasure seems like acceptable self care to me! I console myself often!


rusty_nail 69M  
427 posts
2/11/2019 8:12 am

Sex is a good relaxer

I have also been known to watch the Chopped Food Network program while sipping Dewars to unwind. NO where near the relaxation that comes from masturbating --but it works some.

If being broke weekly is a career, then I should feel good about being successful.


Forkixx 55M
11 posts
2/11/2019 11:31 am

Funny...there’s two things we agree on.


SolarPowered0 113M
8359 posts
2/11/2019 8:55 pm



Naughty Girl...

I ALWAYS deal with everything via the ol' chicken choke-hold.

I just have a sneakin' suspicion that if you were placin' a choke-hold on that ol' chicken of mine... I' likely be a whole lot less stressed... and I wouldn't need 3 quarts of BBQ sauce to bring to a well-done golden brown.

Solar...



HoHowdy 57M
1286 posts
2/15/2019 4:37 pm

I have lived through being with two coworkers being killed on the job, so I have a similar view. I think sex would be a reassurance of life and being human, and would be darn good therapy.


NJGUY08090 52M
2450 posts
2/24/2019 3:25 pm

Well if you are going to be a counselor you better be prepared. Good for you to be so very open honest.


DarkLoveFu 34M
29 posts
2/25/2019 11:13 am

Are you recommend a lot of sex to deal with my childhood trauma? Now I understand how I managed not to be bothered by everything back then...


Dtts43rt35 60M
4334 posts
2/28/2019 1:56 pm

What a good thing we can do and feel, sex is everything, thanks for sharing!


....The joys are always welcome!


penetrar37 41M
22 posts
2/28/2019 8:52 pm

it's so hard to follow posts in here


OldStiffOneEye01 45M
12 posts
3/2/2019 12:29 am

Good for you at being so open about your sexuality. I, too, normally can't sleep unless I self-care lol


Naughtypursuit replies on 3/2/2019 5:16 pm:
It's fantastic right

OlBlueEyz46 52M
584 posts
3/2/2019 12:30 pm

well now ur sexy ass is going to be on my mind as I tend to some self care!

xo


DM_72 46M
4 posts
3/11/2019 6:34 pm

Love how open and honest you are with yourself and your sexuality. At least the mentor stepped in and saved the blushing newbie


Eviloutlaw1 57M
1990 posts
3/28/2019 2:59 am

Wish I could have been a fly on the wall, spit our a mouth full of coffee laughing at this.


Naughtypursuit replies on 3/28/2019 4:32 am:
Lol Sorry...he was a little shy in the follow up meetings but he's all good now.

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