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Self Love - Self Care
Posted:Feb 6, 2019 5:40 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2019 4:26 am
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I some times deal in traumatic events. During and after those events we are required to attend counselling.

In my most recent event in speaking with a new in-training counsellor and his mentor he asked me what I do to engage in self -care. Having been at this a while and no longer feeling the need to hold back I told him that yes I do engage in self care I masturbate regularly during dealing with these events. It helps put things in perspective, it calms me and helps me sleep. I go on to say that when I have had a partner then I engage in frequent sex.

The two counsellors look at each other and I can see the counsellor in training is turning red and a bit flustered and unsure of what to say.

The mentor takes over and states that sex is one of the normal ways people deal with trauma and in certain circumstances is quite healthy. He then goes on to explain that self care is a little more involved...

Ooops...guess sex was on my mind.
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Lock me up
Posted:Jan 9, 2019 10:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2019 5:02 am
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I got an email this morning in one of my personal off site accounts. The email quoted part of email name and part of password I use on sites I dont want to share any information with. I do keep anonymous email accounts for those less then trustworthy web sites I some times visit.

The email stated they had my email address and password along with all my face
book, messenger and email contacts. It stated I had visited a porn site and that they had that evidence as well as evidence of my cam. They threatened to let all my contacts know that I visited a porn site and release my cam recordings and web sites visited unless I paid $988 in bitcoin ( weird amount).

It's hilarious because I dont care if anyone knows that I visited a porn site. Its not illegal, if it is lock me up now. As for having me on cam, never been there, never done that and my cam is disabled.

I can see why some people might be worried about receiving this type of email. It is concerning that they have part of my password. Having said that, the day I pay $988 because I visited a porn site is a cold day in hell.

Who has bail money
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Interspecies sex
Posted:Jan 2, 2019 6:09 am
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2019 4:07 am
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No its not what you are thinking....

I read several online news services daily... well scan more like and read those articles that pique my interest.

One I read yesterday was about a bunch of horny cane toads latching on and humping a python in Australia. Apparently they are so horny after a rain storm they will hump anything. Funny to think of their little toad penises (penii) attacking the poor snake.

Being the curious sort I did some further reading on the subject and also found that several mammals engage in masturbation. That a stallion even when gelded will still continue to masturbate.

The things we learn on the internet.

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So I bought this.....
Posted:Nov 2, 2018 5:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2019 4:40 pm
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I've worked for my employer for 29 years. I can retire in 4 years ( yes I am counting down). I have benefits and with universal health care everything I need is all or mostly covered and that will continue until I pass on. I am though always conscious of what I spend being a single income parent. My job is active, it requires lots of driving, in out of vehicles, traipsing up and down stairs, ladders, and rough terrain.

I have always tried to remain fairly fit, and balance my love of food. I still skate, walk the dogs and have on and off again gym memberships.

I am finding though my body is starting to have more aches and pains. Repetitive strain is setting in and I dont seem to be able to recover as easily. I have gone for physio and to the chiro and while it helps the share I pay adds up over time.

I am currently dealing with a pinch sciatic nerve and am doing all the stretching to relieve it but the pain is not fun. I dont tolerate or take any pain meds. I have taken a Tylenol here and there and have tried muscle relaxants.

The other day I invested in a Tens machine ($114). Both my physio guy and my chiro guy have used these machine on me and they have helped. For those who arent aware it uses electric stimulation to alleviate pain and promote healing through improved circulation.

This machine has been wonderful has been great, well worth the money spent. What's even better lying there for the treatment, I am able to part take in some self love... WIn/Win
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The Fountain of Youth
Posted:Oct 7, 2018 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2018 10:56 am
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Having sex can relieve stress, improve sleep, lower blood pressure, boost your immunity, and, of course, make you feel more connected to your partner. Now, research suggests the good news doesn’t stop there: Having sex at least once a week may also help you live longer.

For one week, researchers tracked the sex lives of a group of 129 women who were in relationships. The participants gave daily reports on their satisfaction with their relationship, as well as how often they were intimate with their partners. The researchers also took blood samples from the women, analyzing cells for indicators of aging.

When the researchers compared the women’s reports to their blood samples, they found a fascinating pattern. Women who had sex with their partners at least once during that week had significantly longer telomeres — the protective cap on DNA that determines a cell’s lifespan — than those who did not.

Over time, telomeres break down as a result of things like poor diet, heavy drinking, and the natural process of growing older, according to the study authors.
But their results suggest that regular sex can repair and lengthen telomeres, which means cells live longer and help keep you younger. Researchers have linked shorter telomeres to serious health issues like cancer, heart disease, and diabetes; longer telomeres seem to help prevent disease. The study is small, and the findings will need to be confirmed with further research. But there’s nothing wrong with applying these findings to your relationship.

Sooooooo if we all have more sex we can live forever or at least counteract our bad habits.

The study makes no mention of the effects of masturbation … ????

PS For my own selfish needs I chose not to include the section of the study that refers to sex only once per week being the prime number.
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You made your bed.....now more sex
Posted:Sep 16, 2018 12:56 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2019 4:49 am
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The bed is where one of the places the magic happens.

Apparently a neatly made bed can actually lead to a better sex life, according to a study conducted by a marketing research firm.

Surveying 2,000 Americans, the study showed how people’s morning habits can show interesting personality traits.
And how making the bed can affect relationships.
Of those surveyed, 42% of those who are into bed-making believe their partner would likely do the same. One-third of those surveyed told researchers partners who didn’t make their bed after waking up in the morning would turn them off.

The study noted on average those who made their bed had more sex per week (three times a week) than those who don’t (twice a week).

In terms of sleep – you know, that other thing the bed was made for – people surveyed averaged about six and a half hours of sleep per night. Of those, people who made their bed noted they wake up an average of about 16 minutes before their counterparts who didn’t.

I will confess I do not make my bed unless I have company coming over. I always thought it better to just let the bed breathe. Now that I know I might get more sleep and more sex I might just have to start making my bed.
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Too Hot for Sex
Posted:Jul 27, 2018 7:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2018 1:42 pm
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( received this from a friend)

It is an unseasonably hot Spring morning
They sit on the back patio finishing their breakfast
Sweat already beading on their foreheads
With the morning news they fan themselves

He gets up and goes inside the house
Minutes later he emerges through the screen door
In his left hand he carries a small cooler
Draped over his right arm is a large beach towel

He is now wearing only his racing swimsuit
Made too tight by his protruding package
She says “going for a swim?
He says nothing and simply grabs her hand

Lifting from her lawn chair she eyes him curiously
He guides her across the yard to under the expansive peach tree
The birds are singing and bees collect love from the blossoms
The fragrance of which is made more acute by the heat

He spreads out the towel
Motions for her to lay down on her back
Now kneeling he Begins to strip off her shorts and panties
She exclaims “ don’t touch me babe, it’s way too hot for sex!”

Silently he continues to reveal her alluring beauty
Removing her tee shirt he exposes her ample breasts
Bending he tenderly licks her nipples
The tip of his tongue the only thing connecting him to her

Opening the cooler he removes a single cube of ice
She shudders as he glides the cold over her red cheeks
He runs the crystalline relief over her lips
Passionately he kisses her, his tongue introduces a possible
conclusion to the story

Grabbing another cube he continues his sensual exploration
She shivers as he travels down her neck
The glistening stream entering the valley of her cleavage
Her gasps are evidence that he’s reached her bracing tits

He draws a single shimmering line between her navel and her pelvis
As if connecting the dots he glides his tongue along the path
Stopping at the edge of her humid forest
Up and down, row by row he soaks her pubic garden

He nudges her to roll on her back and she complies
He lifts her chestnut brown hair and devours the back of her neck
He paints with yet another chilly block her irresistible white shoulders
Her breath quickens as he traverses her sensitive spine

As if icing a cake he liberally coats her gorgeous alabaster ass
Refreshing drops cascading into her alluring crevice
Like a mischievous boy he methodically licks off all the frosting
His tongue feels rough on her smooth white skin

In his sexy baritone voice he whispers “lift up your ass baby”
Giggling she says “that tickles” as he rims, with a melting cube, her puckered hole
The silvery residue from the ice mingled with her juices quenches her fiery lips
Slipping off his suit he drags his swollen head across her labia
adding precum to the erotic cocktail

She moans “I need you inside me”
He opens her wide and licks her bottom to clit
Then he plunges headlong into her succulent sweet spot
She pushes back wanting to feel his full measure

His hands on her butt cheeks for support
Slowly, not wanting to generate excessive heat
He glides his hardened steel tool in and out
Sensing her climax he dives deep and holds

Matching her moans to his groans
They reach orgasm together
He bathes her insides with his hot cream
She shudders in utter ecstasy

She looks at him still wide eyed with pleasure
He grins pleased with his well received surprise
She says “looking ahead to tomorrow,
Can you please not touch me again?
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Would you...
Posted:Jul 23, 2018 12:59 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2019 4:41 am
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I had a conversation with a gentleman from the site recently. I had advised him that I was not interested in pursuing anything with him because he is a smoker. Besides being allergic to tobacco, I just totally dislike the taste of it on someone. He advised that his ex had refused to give him blow jobs let alone swallow because he tasted horrible. He never related it to his smoking just his wife being prissy. I advised him that in my humble opinion there is a distinct difference in taste between smokers and non smokers. I asked him if he would quit smoking if it would mean more oral for him.

So would you quit smoking if it meant more oral pleasure for you?
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Butt Facials - Mclindo this Butts for you
Posted:Jun 20, 2018 7:56 pm
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2018 10:59 am
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You may have heard of a vajacial — a skin treatment to pamper skin in between bikini waxes — but the latest nether-region beauty treatment is a little bit more cheeky.

The butt facial puts your derriére first.

The 50-minute treatment from a famous Los Angeles spa is all the rage with celebrities and demand for the booty-based regime has increased as summer approaches.

The treatment is “designed specially to get your behind bathing-suit ready! We custom tailor this treatment depending on your personal concerns — cleansing, detoxifying, exfoliation, extraction, hydration, our signature RUB N’ BUFF body polish and microdermabrasion,” the spa says.

Clientele often request treatments on their behinds “to really tighten the skin.”
The “get cheeky treatment” will set you back US$160.
You can also get a “fanny facial treatment” at a spa in New York

They begin with an exfoliation of your backside. Then estheticians continue by using Microcurrent Therapy to lift and tone the derriére. The final result is a smoother, more toned bottom. Your backside never felt better.

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Goldilocks and the three beds
Posted:Jan 6, 2018 7:09 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2018 11:48 am
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I am shopping for a new bed. I tend to buy a new bed every 7-8 years. I have read that the life of a good mattress is around 10 years, but they recommend replacing every 7-10 years.. I am sure the life of a mattress depends on the quality you originally bought and the use it has been put through.

There are many types of beds out there - the memory foam, innerspring, hybrids, foam and different variations within each type - ie the type of spring/coil.

I have tried out a few beds and have found one that I like in the memory foam category. It has a longer warranty and technology for cooling and I found it the most comfortable.

As I tried out the foam and memory foam beds I wondered about how these beds perform during Sex? I have the feeling that it may hinder some activities. I have read some reviews but you can't really trust what you read online...

Have you had sex in a foam or memory foam bed and how was it? Any Issues?
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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery
Posted:Aug 28, 2017 4:33 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2019 5:31 am
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Although in this case it's stealing.

I received an email that someone was using my profile picture as one of their confirmed pictures.

What is upsetting to me as you can clearly tell its a screen shot of my pic, they have stamped their name on it and put it as their confirmed picture.

You would think you go through the approval process by the site and they review your pictures, even more closely the confirmation pictures that they could clearly see this was not an original picture.

Lesson learned - do not even trust the confirmed pictures.
This is my ass, there are some things you can do to it but stealing it is not one....
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The Brassiere
Posted:Aug 3, 2017 1:24 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2019 3:28 pm
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I have a thing for bra's and panties.  I have never counted my panties, but for bra's I know I have enough to go over 2 months without wearing the same one twice (after hand washing of course).  As I got in my latest purchase I pondered at the complexity of getting in and out of some while trying to appear seductive.   Some I think are clearly meant to remain on during sex.  I also just purchased my first bustier and again I have to assume it is meant to stay on, or I will need help removing it while still trying to remain sensual.  I have to say I am thinking I need a few more bustier/corsets.

some of my collection

I did some research on bra's as I pondered my collection and found some interesting tidbits.  Contrary to popular belief of many teenage boys Otto Titzling (pronounced tit sling) was indeed not the inventor of the brassiere although he did challenge for the patent.    And it wasn't until the 1930's that they figured out that the pendulousness of women's breast varied from woman to woman and came up with different cup sizes.



I think because of the field of work I am in, knowing that underneath I am still wearing something that is all woman gives me a little thrill and one of the reason's I have a fetish for bra's and panties.  As well given my cup size I think investing in quality is important to a healthy back....

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I am Canadian
Posted:Jul 1, 2017 8:00 am
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2019 6:27 am
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My name is Joe, and I am Canadian.
Hey, I’m not a lumberjack or a fur trader.
I don’t live in an igloo, or eat blubber, or own a sled.
And, I don;t know Jimmy, Sally or Suzie from Canada, although I’m sure they’re real nice.
I have a Prime Minister, not a President.
I speak English and French, not American.
And I pronounce it ‘about,’ not ‘a-boot.’
I can proudly sew my nation’s flag on my backpack.
I believe in peace keeping, not policing. Diversity not assimilation.
And, the beaver is a truly noble animal!
And Z is pronounced Zed, not Z. Zed!
Canada is the second largest land mass, the first nation of hockey, and the best part of North America!
My name is Joe, and I am Canadian!


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