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wickedeasy 74F
11076 posts
9/28/2018 11:33 am
this is what you get now


for all of you who support the RNC, do not contact me. ever.

if you in any way think that today was a win....don't bother with me, don't.

if political cartoons offend you, walk away.

if women speaking the truth seems uppity, well, you shouldn't bother with this blog or maybe with women.

if you think boys will be boys is a rationale for abuse.....

go fuck yourselves. I certainly won't

and seriously, if anyone thinks that God would support racism, misogyny, abuse, white privilege, economic inequality...……….then you have not read the bible.

and you really don't want to read me.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
9/28/2018 11:35 am

and yes, I am bitter

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
9/28/2018 12:11 pm

There are those who do it blindly, based on misunderstandings and false truths. Those people, I feel sorry for......a little, not much. There are those who do it because they believe the RNC is right. Those I have no time for, they are stupid. Then there are those who do it deliberately, fully understanding what they are about, believing it to be their birth right to lead, to love greed, to create need. Those, I despise that kind with all my soul.

Shortly after trump was elected I read a post from a girl here who said she was cutting out anyone who she knew voted for or supported him. I did the same thing, there were only a few. I dared to tell someone how I felt about her political leanings recently and told her I wanted nothing to do with her. Seems I was a horrible and narrow-minded person for so doing. Oh well, I'm sure I'll live.

Good work McWickster, now all you disenfranchised ladies please get together and get this evil corrupt scum out of power as soon as possible. Have another march on Washington or something......please???? Seems that we men aren't strong enough to do it, or are too far up our own power crazed arses to care!!


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 1:56 pm:
dear man. it seems no matter what truth is told, no matter how egregious the act, boys will be boys and old white men with snarling faces and insurmountable fears will decide to drag this country further back into the dark ages.

my fingers are numb from calling. if I show up at one more protest, I may win a prize (lol). and to fight with family members......it's another level of hell I was not expecting.

the insanity is getting to us.

JuBee513 66M

9/28/2018 1:42 pm

Amen.


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 1:56 pm:
amen.

XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
9/28/2018 2:43 pm

If the President of the USA can get away with similar behavior, it is no surprise that those he chooses to join his administration can also be tainted!

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wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 1:57 pm:
it's a farce of the worst kind...……..

and not the lest bit funny, eh?

me_lonely37 54M

9/28/2018 3:10 pm

And Bill Clinton was such an upstanding person!


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 1:58 pm:
no, he wasn't but at least his BJ was consensual. oh and he did get impeached for it.

me_lonely37 54M

9/28/2018 3:17 pm

I'm not offended by politics, my book they are all corrupt lairs.
Now narrow minded people who feel the only opinion that matters is theirs, yes they offend me.


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 1:59 pm:
they offend me as well. hence my rant

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/28/2018 3:22 pm

Amen my friend.. well said I totally agree with you!! I hope you enjoyed your Friday and you have a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 1:59 pm:
tight hugs gorgeous lady

alohashirt50 73M

9/28/2018 4:19 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Amen my friend.. well said I totally agree with you!! I hope you enjoyed your Friday and you have a great weekend..
Will the fact that Trump has ordered an FBI investigation into Cavanaugh make you feel better ? I do understand that this is about resist Trump, so maybe to the resisters it won't matter one way or another. What do you think?


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:00 pm:
yes, the FBI investigation that will be tightly scripted by Trump. hmmm

alohashirt50 73M

9/28/2018 4:24 pm

Why would you speak about Christianity when you don't practice it? Especially the 10 commandments? I don't understand?


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:01 pm:
why do you assume I don't?

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
9/28/2018 4:38 pm

Tell it, sister.

(actually I'm PO'd at both parties right now. I wasn't able to listen all day yesterday but what I did hear sounded more like grandstanding than like any kind of attempt to get to the truth.)


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:02 pm:
I never thought adults could act so much like children. yelling and screaming. it was appalling.

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/28/2018 4:44 pm

    Quoting alohashirt50:
    Will the fact that Trump has ordered an FBI investigation into Cavanaugh make you feel better ? I do understand that this is about resist Trump, so maybe to the resisters it won't matter one way or another. What do you think?
Alohashirt, its not about making me feel better, its the fact that the truth needs to all come out once and for all and I know there is a lot more to this. I am not a fan of TRUMP never have been, but this is the smartest thing he's done from what I have seen so far. And in saying that there was numerous other FBI investigations on him but when I see and hear even his friends and other high school and college students he went to school with are coming out and saying he's lying there is your SIGN so to speak..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
9/28/2018 10:32 pm

Good for you.

I just unfriended a misogynistic, racist friend on FB, when he said something ridiculously stupid on this issue. I called him on it. Then a dear friend who had suffered for years as a result of a sexual assault in college, left a lengthy response to his asshattery.

Then, my daughter said she cried when watching Jeff Rones speak.

No More. No More. No More.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
9/28/2018 10:35 pm

If Kavanaugh is confirmed and appointed, it (at least for me) will mean the end of America, as we know it.

Trump will go off into the sunset, a feeble man who will still imagine he is respected. Any influence he may have will end.

Kavanaugh, though? That's a different story. Unfortunately the USA will be doomed, for years and generations to come. .

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:03 pm:
Kavanuagh threatened the US. does nto bode well for a SCOTUS

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/29/2018 3:33 am

What are you trying to convey?

Are you trying to say, "Any allegation any woman makes against any man should be taken as absolute truth"?

Really?


alohashirt50 73M

9/29/2018 8:16 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    What are you trying to convey?

    Are you trying to say, "Any allegation any woman makes against any man should be taken as absolute truth"?

    Really?
I hope wickedeasy condemned Bill Clinton? And yes Heathen_G that seems to be the pattern that has been established by a big majority of women.


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:10 pm:
big majority of women. hmmm

nearly 70% of women who are assaulted sexually never report it. so it seems to me you guys are getting off pretty light here. and of the cases taken to court, most are plead down or dismissed. so, want to discuss what it is like for a woman to go through that battle? because if you do aloha, I will be more than happy to discuss the four slimy little bastards who held me down, stuffed socks in my mouth and took turns with me.

alohashirt50 73M

9/29/2018 8:25 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Alohashirt, its not about making me feel better, its the fact that the truth needs to all come out once and for all and I know there is a lot more to this. I am not a fan of TRUMP never have been, but this is the smartest thing he's done from what I have seen so far. And in saying that there was numerous other FBI investigations on him but when I see and hear even his friends and other high school and college students he went to school with are coming out and saying he's lying there is your SIGN so to speak..
I would have thought that any FBI investigations done on Trump would have been started once he said he would run for prez? But the FBI's job is to investigate and make a unbiased report. Obama covered up many things also. He was raised a communist, is gay, and apparently a few of his men that he had sex with have turned up dead. All this and more I have found on the computer since he was a senator. Bill Clinton and all his women that came forward and yet he still served 2 terms, Documented proof that Hillary demeaned these women and other things. Now we have the "me too" movement that condems men for unwanted touching and sexual harassment are making men shy away from women. But I did notice that nothing about women harassing or doing unwanted touching to men has not been mentioned. So after watching all this I stay away from the majority of women , except when I go dancing of course.


alohashirt50 73M

9/29/2018 8:31 am

it is interesting that you support the democrat party , and you make a list of things that the democrat party does, saying the RNC does this? I truly hope you condemned Bill Clinton and what he did to women? I'm not bitter , I don't support either party or any political party. Just Observing


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:12 pm:
you are also judging. i don't delete opposing views so feel free to stay.

you see, unlike the GOP, i allow for frrdom of speech

alohashirt50 73M

9/29/2018 8:39 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Tell it, sister.

    (actually I'm PO'd at both parties right now. I wasn't able to listen all day yesterday but what I did hear sounded more like grandstanding than like any kind of attempt to get to the truth.)
The meeting wasn't a court of law. When a person comes to a meeting of this magnitude they need to come with all their ducks in a row. I do know that if Cavanaugh get rejected there is a woman who is next in line for the job. She is a republican. The meeting wasn't about Cavanaugh it was about resisting anything Trump does. The dems whole heartedly supported Obama, but after asking questions about Obama's gayness I have read where certain men who had sex with him have died? No mention of his communist up bringing was mentioned when he ran for prez? Interesting double standard that is taking place.


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:14 pm:
resisting a trump nominee when the congress may be altered within 2 months is not a silly idea and is exactly what the COP did to Obama's nominee. no?

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
9/29/2018 11:15 am

While to outcome was all to predictable, I wish I had been wrong on my prediction. But, I dont condemn parties, I condemn individuals that promise one thing but fail to deliver, or lie about what they believe in to get votes. I have always crossed party lines to vote for individuals. And I think all lobbyists belong in jail, maybe we should reopen Alcatraz just for them? I think all paid lobbying should be illegal, and will even go as far as saying that all political parties should be illegal. A person wishing to be elected to office should have to run on his/her individual record, without any financial support other than what they themselves can provide, documented by their OWN income records. Volunteer helpers would be legal, but NO campaign contributions allowed. Yes, the rich would dominate at first, but that would change as they wouldnt bother in the long run if they couldnt profit from running for office. SOmeone said, I think Mark Twain, that anyone running for elected office should be fully investigated, including a psych eval, before being allowed to run ! If elected, they should be subject to even closer supervison!


wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:16 pm:
it could have been Twain - sounds like him.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/30/2018 7:41 pm

    Quoting alohashirt50:
    I hope wickedeasy condemned Bill Clinton? And yes Heathen_G that seems to be the pattern that has been established by a big majority of women.
Maybe she did, maybe she did not....I certainly did not condemn him. Kennedy was much more philanderous.

If that's how "The big majority of women" are going to be, then, the "Big majority of women" are wrong, and there will be men , as myself, who will say, ,"Nonsense". The idea of "Believing all women", is foolishness. Ford "Supposedly" waited 36 years , to tell this "Story"......Ford's close friend said she is just hearing of this.........after 36 years...............I say it's all nonsense.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/30/2018 8:03 pm

Quote: wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:10 pm:
big majority of women. hmmm

nearly 70% of women who are assaulted sexually never report it. so it seems to me you guys are getting off pretty light here. and of the cases taken to court, most are plead down or dismissed. so, want to discuss what it is like for a woman to go through that battle? because if you do aloha, I will be more than happy to discuss the four slimy little bastards who held me down, stuffed socks in my mouth and took turns with me.


====================

nearly 70% of women who are assaulted sexually never report it. ... Unfortunate, but they should have within a reasonable amount of time.
Also , you should know that men are assaulted sexually , too... 96 percent of those go unreported.

so it seems to me you guys are getting off pretty light here. ... Maybe, maybe not.... but for a woman to say she was assaulted decades ago, long past the Statutes of Limitations, is ridiculous, and in high profile situations like this one, stinks of smearing a man's reputation based on nothing.

and of the cases taken to court, most are plead down or dismissed. ... As this Ford v Kavanaugh should be dismissed.

so, want to discuss what it is like for a woman to go through that battle? ... Why? Nothing will come from it. Everybody knows sexual assault happens. Everybody knows... men and women.

I will be more than happy to discuss the four slimy little bastards who held me down, stuffed socks in my mouth and took turns with me..... Maybe this happened, maybe it did not....any woman can make up a story to gain sympathetic support to fluff her argument.

If you reported your incident immediately , good on you for not waiting a ridiculous amount of time, and so there would be recorded proof.

Remember, the women who make false reports of a sexual assault make life even harder for the women who really had this happen to them.


ArglBargl14 61M

10/1/2018 4:11 am

Heathen_G managed to type out:

"Remember, the women who make false reports of a sexual assault make life even harder for the women who really had this happen to them."

No, the patriarchal condemnation of the women who report this, and stigmatize reporting and the aftermath, are what make life harder for the victims. Kavanaugh is a privileged white asshole of the first water and has been lying through his teeth at finally being called out. There's a line-by-line analysis of the two testimonies out there, and hers was direct and answered the questions asked, his was at least half of the time prevaricating.

How dare you presume to lecture to someone whose had to live through this trauma. How dare you.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/1/2018 1:16 pm

    Quoting ArglBargl14:
    Heathen_G managed to type out:

    "Remember, the women who make false reports of a sexual assault make life even harder for the women who really had this happen to them."

    No, the patriarchal condemnation of the women who report this, and stigmatize reporting and the aftermath, are what make life harder for the victims. Kavanaugh is a privileged white asshole of the first water and has been lying through his teeth at finally being called out. There's a line-by-line analysis of the two testimonies out there, and hers was direct and answered the questions asked, his was at least half of the time prevaricating.

    How dare you presume to lecture to someone whose had to live through this trauma. How dare you.
How dare you presume to lecture to someone whose had to live through this trauma. How dare you. .... That was no lecture, bozo, and again....anyone can say anything happened to them [that's the problem].... it doesn't make it credible. Don't you see that?

Anyway, nothing actually happened to Ford, she was not a victim. She thought she was going to be a victim.

Take a look at this :

1982... Something may or may not have happened at a party of teenagers 15 to 17 years old...She can't remember where the party was, who threw the party, where the party was, who she was with, how she got home. She was drinking... she said nothing to anyone.

1983...
1984..
1985..
1986..
1987..
1988..
1989..
1990..
1991..
1992..
1993..
1994..
1995..
1996..
1997..
1998..
1999..
2000..
2001..
2002... Still saying nothing...

2003.. July 25, G.W.Bush nominated Kavanaugh to the US Court of Appeals for the D.C. Circuit .........Still Ford says nothing.

2004..says nothing
2005..says nothing

2006..May 11th The US Senate Committee on the Judiciary recommended confirmation. Kavanaugh subsequently confirmed by the US Senate. ......Still Ford says nothing.

2007..says nothing
2008..
2009..
2010..
2011..
2012.. She thinks she remember something about 1982.. but says NOTHING about Kavanaugh to the authorities..

2013.. says nothing....
2014..
2015..
2016..
2017.. Ford becomes an anti-Trump activist.

2018... Now 36 years later with Kavanaugh's Supreme Court of the US conformation looming , Ford pens an anonymous letter with grave accusations against Kavanaugh regarding a foggy circumstance when they were both minors, then reveals herself and demands the FBI investigates before she testifies to her foggy allegations.
He's already had 6 FBI background checks. These background checks are common place.


christylovesfun 51F  
16880 posts
10/1/2018 4:16 pm

Hugs.

Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety. Other women cloy
The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry
Where most she satisfies. For vilest things
Become themselves in her, that the holy priests
Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra


wickedeasy replies on 10/10/2018 12:54 pm:
ah, buggah it. the creepy shite got in anyway and so everyone just VOTE

SolarPowered0 117M
8346 posts
10/1/2018 7:05 pm



Oui…

You have GOT to get away from that Pocahontas! She's got your brain-stem by the balls and she's got you convinced that Old White Men are the problem.

Fact is: Old White Women are the problem. Especially the ones who think they are Injuns.

Yes... I said it. You know I don't do PC.

Solar...



wickedeasy replies on 10/10/2018 12:50 pm:
solar I love you man but Warren ahs nothing to do with this so shut the fuck up.

kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
10/7/2018 9:06 pm

I believe her.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


wickedeasy replies on 10/10/2018 12:50 pm:
me too

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
10/7/2018 9:35 pm

    Quoting alohashirt50:
    The meeting wasn't a court of law. When a person comes to a meeting of this magnitude they need to come with all their ducks in a row. I do know that if Cavanaugh get rejected there is a woman who is next in line for the job. She is a republican. The meeting wasn't about Cavanaugh it was about resisting anything Trump does. The dems whole heartedly supported Obama, but after asking questions about Obama's gayness I have read where certain men who had sex with him have died? No mention of his communist up bringing was mentioned when he ran for prez? Interesting double standard that is taking place.
"The meeting wasn't about Cavanaugh it was about resisting anything Trump does. "

I only have one response to this- Eric Garland. He was a moderate-conservative that was approved by Republicans prior to Obama electing him to the Supreme Court and McConnell specifically said that his greatest achievement was in denying for over a year, that that seat be filled.
Do not ever say that the Democrats are just going against everything Trump does until you look at what the Republicans have done, especially in recent history.

You seem overly preoccupied with "gay". Could you be a homophobe?
Anything you write about Obama being gay means nothing unless you are willing to back it up with some kind of evidence. Other than that, it just makes anyone claiming absurd things, idiotic.

If you support the current prez, you are supporting someone who have not only a great admiration for Putin, as he himself has said several times that he had hoped to meet Putin back when he was trying to get the beauty pageants that he runs into Russia and build there, so back in the mid 1990's, but he also has been in trouble for laundering Russian money (see his buying of a derelict house in Florida, then not renovating it, and then selling it at millions in profit to a Russian oligarch). Why is 45 so against the Russian probe into their interference into the 2016 election? Could it be because he will be found out to be in Putin's back pocket?

The definition of communism is an economic system where everything is publicly owned by everyone in the country. Where had Obama ever stated that he was advocating for that?

Methinks you don't really understand the definitions of either communism or "double standard", since you don't seem to want to address the RNC's shortcomings.
kk

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wickedeasy replies on 10/10/2018 12:56 pm:
well posited KK.

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
10/7/2018 10:00 pm

    Quoting alohashirt50:
    I would have thought that any FBI investigations done on Trump would have been started once he said he would run for prez? But the FBI's job is to investigate and make a unbiased report. Obama covered up many things also. He was raised a communist, is gay, and apparently a few of his men that he had sex with have turned up dead. All this and more I have found on the computer since he was a senator. Bill Clinton and all his women that came forward and yet he still served 2 terms, Documented proof that Hillary demeaned these women and other things. Now we have the "me too" movement that condems men for unwanted touching and sexual harassment are making men shy away from women. But I did notice that nothing about women harassing or doing unwanted touching to men has not been mentioned. So after watching all this I stay away from the majority of women , except when I go dancing of course.
Obama was raised a communist? Really? Where is your proof?
He is gay? Again, where is your proof?
You found on the computer?
OK, dude, seriously, you are not sounding like an intelligent person here, you are sounding like you only go on conspiracy-type pseudo-news sites.

Juanita Broaddrick, the only woman who came forward to claim sexual assault against Bill Clinton, did so in 1999, only after she denied it for the previous two years. For the record, I believe her. Bill Clinton was impeached by the House of Representatives for lying about having consensual sex with Monica Lewinsky, another adult. Now, do I feel he abused his power and should NOT have had sex with a 21 yr old intern. Oh for sure. I believe that if he were investigated for something to do with sex, he should be investigated for that *r*a*pe and for sexual misconduct unbecoming a president.

That Hillary felt the need to protect her husband is not surprising, and that she overstepped her bounds while doing so, is also not surprising. Did she break a law in doing so? No, she didn't. Is it a bitchy thing to do? For sure it was.

The #MeToo movement is not about making men "shy away from having anything to do with women" it is about the past and calling men to account for the many, many times that they did not listen to a woman when she said no, didn't give permission to a man to touch her at work or elsewhere, that she couldn't get ahead if she said NO in her profession, was punished in some cases (Weinstein comes to mind her but also Charlie Rose) when she simply said no and tried to continue as if nothing had happened.

Going forward, men should take this to heart- if you ask, and you don't get an enthusiastic YES, then maybe you should leave well enough alone, and go home and masturbate. If you touch a woman and she goes limp, she freezes up, then perhaps she is frightened of you, and again, this is not a HELL YEAH I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU moment, so you should consider stopping and leaving her alone. If you ask, and the woman can't answer you with an affirmative answer, again, then maybe it isn't a hell yeah moment and you need to just move along.

GREAT SEX happens with lots of communication. If you look her in the eye and she is trembling in fear and not lust and trying to look anywhere BUT you, this is a non-verbal cue. If she looks back at you and is confident, if she pulls you closer, if she smiles at you and acknowledges what you are doing is something she likes with words, with smiles and nods, with groans, then you are on the right path.
And maybe one night stands are off the table forever. Small price to pay, right?

Why did I write such a long answer? I did so because I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt. I wanted to respond because this is an area of interest of mine and has been since before the allegations against Bill Clinton came to the forefront of the public's attention. And because I have advised plenty of people in the last 8 years, both high school age (and now college age) and people in their 50's and older, how to give good clear consent and how to get it, and in doing so, improving sex lives with communication.

Have some great sex with clear communication, it will blow your mind!
kk

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wickedeasy replies on 10/10/2018 12:58 pm:
Sis you have such kindness in you. thank you for this

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
10/7/2018 10:05 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Maybe she did, maybe she did not....I certainly did not condemn him. Kennedy was much more philanderous.

    If that's how "The big majority of women" are going to be, then, the "Big majority of women" are wrong, and there will be men , as myself, who will say, ,"Nonsense". The idea of "Believing all women", is foolishness. Ford "Supposedly" waited 36 years , to tell this "Story"......Ford's close friend said she is just hearing of this.........after 36 years...............I say it's all nonsense.
Heathen,
I waited 25 years to come forward with my own story.
You have too little empathy or imagination to understand how hard it would be for a 15 yr old to come out against two 17 yr old boys who attempted assault but didn't succeed in a g*r*a*pe.

Let me put it to you this way, you are a 15 yr old boy who is around two 17 yr old popular boys who you want the group of them to like you and let you party with them. They push you in a room. When you try to leave, those boys that are bigger than you, lock the door and push you on the bed. You try to yell for help, but they turn up the music, so no one can hear your yells. You start to yell some more, but the one boy, the less drunk one, but still very drunk, gets on top of you, puts his hand clumsily over your mouth, threatening your ability to breathe. He runs his hands all over you, causing you to freeze in fear. The other one makes jokes, jumping on top of the two of you, smashing the one on top of you, further into you. They both laugh at you and your struggle to get away. You feel the weight of both of those 17 year old drunk boys on top of you. The 2nd one gets off, then the boy on top of you tries to take your clothes off, grinds his penis against your genitals. You struggle with him. The 2nd boy jumps on top of the two of you again. This knocks both of them off of you, and you jump up and you manage to get out, locking yourself into a bathroom. You listen as they "pinball" out down the hall, laughing. If you didn't understand a girl in that position, what would a boy in that same position, with two gay guys on top of him trying to *r*a*pe him because they're drunk, how would that make you feel?

I didn't come forward because I thought I was complicit in my *r*a*pe. I thought because I consented, out of a fear that if I didn't consent he would shoot me with the brand new gun he had just shown me, that it was not *r*a*pe. Never mind that I was scared out of my wits, that my heart was beating so fast that I felt dizzy, that I could not catch my breath because my muscles were freezing up in fear, that I would not ever have consented to having sex with that man in that time except for the fact that I was afraid of that g*u*n, I thought I had consented and that invalidated any *r*a*pe happening.

They now call it "*r*a*pe by coercion". It is the very definition of *r*a*pe by coercion because I would never have had sex with that man without the presence of that g*u*n. It affected me so much, despite my desperately trying to just shove it into the back of my mind, that a few years ago, when my cousin who I knew him through, told me that he was trying to reach me and wanted my contact information, I just started crying all over again. As if it had happened last week, or last night. The fear I had in my heart was renewed all over again. I told her then about that *r*a*pe. So you see, you probably know a shitload of women who have been either *r*a*ped or been sexually as$aulted but they would never tell you precisely because you had this reaction to someone not reporting 36 yrs ago- "I say it's all nonsense."

I guess you don't have any women in real life, that trust you.
What does that say about you?
I trusted you enough to tell you this directly, but of course, you don't know me in real life, now do you?
kk

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KItkat1415 61F  
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10/7/2018 10:10 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Quote: wickedeasy replies on 9/30/2018 2:10 pm:
    big majority of women. hmmm

    nearly 70% of women who are assaulted sexually never report it. so it seems to me you guys are getting off pretty light here. and of the cases taken to court, most are plead down or dismissed. so, want to discuss what it is like for a woman to go through that battle? because if you do aloha, I will be more than happy to discuss the four slimy little bastards who held me down, stuffed socks in my mouth and took turns with me.


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    nearly 70% of women who are assaulted sexually never report it. ... Unfortunate, but they should have within a reasonable amount of time.
    Also , you should know that men are assaulted sexually , too... 96 percent of those go unreported.

    so it seems to me you guys are getting off pretty light here. ... Maybe, maybe not.... but for a woman to say she was assaulted decades ago, long past the Statutes of Limitations, is ridiculous, and in high profile situations like this one, stinks of smearing a man's reputation based on nothing.

    and of the cases taken to court, most are plead down or dismissed. ... As this Ford v Kavanaugh should be dismissed.

    so, want to discuss what it is like for a woman to go through that battle? ... Why? Nothing will come from it. Everybody knows sexual assault happens. Everybody knows... men and women.

    I will be more than happy to discuss the four slimy little bastards who held me down, stuffed socks in my mouth and took turns with me..... Maybe this happened, maybe it did not....any woman can make up a story to gain sympathetic support to fluff her argument.

    If you reported your incident immediately , good on you for not waiting a ridiculous amount of time, and so there would be recorded proof.

    Remember, the women who make false reports of a sexual assault make life even harder for the women who really had this happen to them.
What was your purpose in saying this- "Remember, the women who make false reports of a sexual assault make life even harder for the women who really had this happen to them."
So few women do this, yet mostly men say that this happens. What?
Almost all men who sexually as$ault lie and say they didn't do it, even when there are bruises evident, only their semen and it matches their DNA. Do you tell all men who lie and say they didn't sexually as$ault that they make it harder for people to believe men who are innocent? Your reasoning makes no sense.
kk

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KItkat1415 61F  
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10/7/2018 10:18 pm

    Quoting SolarPowered0:


    Oui…

    You have GOT to get away from that Pocahontas! She's got your brain-stem by the balls and she's got you convinced that Old White Men are the problem.

    Fact is: Old White Women are the problem. Especially the ones who think they are Injuns.

    Yes... I said it. You know I don't do PC.

    Solar...



I don't do PC either.
Fact is: you are an old white dude who doesn't get it, and probably has no women in his life that trust him enough to tell them that they have been as$aulted in the past.

Poor you. Except that you probably brought on poor relationships with women on yourself with this type of opinion, poorly expressed.
Kk

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wickedeasy replies on 12/25/2018 10:53 am:
he's a very very smart old white dude. wh happens to believe differently than we do. sighs. and I truly like him

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10/8/2018 1:39 pm



To the Kitster…

Yer right--I don't have any women in my life ( and THANK YOU, JESUS )

The real reason I don't... ain't got a thing to do with your flawed take on me. Fact is, my ex-wife left me because she wanted someone younger, richer, with a bigger dick.

When she finally left, some time later she told me about her supposed " 3 years of therapy." (I suspect it was an issue of her pathological lying--runs in her family, doncha know?) I asked her why I didn't know anything about it (the therapy, that is)... and she says, "Because you didn't care." Now, ain't that just exactly how female logic works? How in fuck am I supposed to care about something I was totally unaware of... because she wasn't about to tell me.

The so-called "women's refuge center" told her I was a spousal abuser... because... I was "brutally honest." ( BTW: that term is used to attempt to inflict emotional pain on men... kinda like mind- r-(fucked}. OMG--that man's been mind- r-(fucked). Yep--when I asked her ( 6months previous to her departure ) if she wanted a divorce, she didn't even have the decency to answer me. So much for a woman being truthful, eh?

I look at babes like this: if ya can't tell a woman the truth, why bother lyin'? Either way--she ain't gonna believe you.

Sorry to offend you with my poorly expressed opinion. But then again... I really didn't write it with the intention of placating your "holier-than-thou female-ness."

Beside all the diatribe, If I want a "relationship" with a woman, I'll just buy one... down at the Pole In The Hole drive-thru hooker heaven. Way cheaper than giving some woman everything you have--or ever will have. And for what? A piece of ass you ain't never gonna get???

BTW: old white men make much better confidants. Too bad I don't have any sort of disposition for suckin' cock--I'd just turn queer.

Solar...

BTW: Ain't that a kick in the twat--I had to change the proper word "rxxxx" to "r-(fucked)" because JAPANESEGIRLSWINGER.COM-land wouldn't accept it as written. Seems NO ONE can deal with the truth--not even this place. And we're all supposed to have legitimate conversations in the "real" world?

Kinda proves my points--yes??? What a fuckin' joke.



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wickedeasy replies on 10/10/2018 1:04 pm:
solar, you know I care for you. but my politics and yours have always been disparate, right? no need to take it out on friend of mine...

SolarPowered0 117M
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10/13/2018 8:11 pm



Oh, Oui…

Do you really think that I would take out the disparateness of our politics on your friends? I wouldn't even take it out on you.

I just feel obliged, at certain times, to be "brutally honest."

Solar...


#DoMeToo


wickedeasy replies on 10/14/2018 7:44 am:
alright, got it.

love you no matter what

SolarPowered0 117M
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10/14/2018 5:53 pm



Love you, too--all disparity aside.

Solar...


#DoMeToo


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/18/2018 1:01 am

It was a combined effort over years that put our federal government in the toilet to this point.

Using more than all the road!


hotdude19702 53M
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10/20/2018 12:27 am

Great Blog I like it.


wickedeasy replies on 12/25/2018 10:50 am:
thank you kindly

LexMale4BiFun 54M
12 posts
10/20/2018 5:51 am

It is truly sad what the RNC has done to OUR Country. Will we ever be able to recover from this?


wickedeasy replies on 12/25/2018 10:50 am:
god I hope so, but then I am a bit of a pollyanna

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