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blaxi209 43M

2/19/2019 7:01 pm

I dont know what women do on this site if they arent looking for men, chatting or posting pics/vids... but there are a lot of flakes here


StylezKinked 38M

2/19/2019 7:20 pm

true very true never kind find what exactly your looking for


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/19/2019 7:21 pm

How can anyone be a good lover (or friend, or companion, or anything) if they ignore what the other person says?..... They, choosing to take a chance, by ignoring what you say you want, has no correlation to being a NOT good lover, friend, companion.

oh, she doesn't really mean that, or she'll make an exception for me because I'm special, or she doesn't know what she wants)? ....Or, It's not about what you don't want.... it's about they , wanting you ..... they want to take a chance. .....Think about it.... what do they have to lose by taking a chance? ...Answer: They lose nothing.

If the fact that THEY are interested is the only thing that matters? .... At this point, yes, that's right. THEY are interested. And the "Matter" now becomes, "Will she take a chance"...... If you say , "No", or don't respond? Nothing is different.

These are not the qualities I look for in anyone.....So you're saying you are absolutely not interested in people who take chances , when chances present themselves? That's a little sad.

It's like they're waving a big red flag that says I AM A SELFISH FUCK AND A LOUSY LOVER! ..... Not always. Everyone , including yourself, is entitled to take a chance when you, or anyone, feels there could be a benefit for good, in taking that chance.


totalgeek321 50M

2/19/2019 7:37 pm

That is so crazy.


charlesmartel0 59M
173 posts
2/19/2019 8:06 pm

Dude, if she's not into something, it doesn't matter if he's willing to take a chance, she's not going to be into it. Like, I'm not into a girl with big tits. Been there, done that. If some girl with personal flotation devices comes at me, I really don't care if she's willing to take a chance. It's not gonna work. Superficial? Maybe, but why is it anybody's business?


SwirlLoveCpl 54M/50F

2/19/2019 8:20 pm

I can understand the annoyance at people who contact you and disregard what you're looking for. It's also commendable to take chances in life. But there is a difference between taking a chance, meaning "the leap", and then after that 'leap' continuing to disregard what a person is telling you they want, to try and imply that just because THEY are interested in you, it is ok for them to ignore what you say. If he took a leap, then you said no and he went away....then, yes, that's a swing and a miss. But for him to go on and try to convince you that just because he took a leap you should jump on board despite what you say you want is both insulting and sad.

You are absolutely right and should continue to look for what you want, not what someone else tries to convince you to want.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/19/2019 8:25 pm

I don't even read the things he says, too pompous , preachy and long winded. At any rate, we all have likes, dislikes and preferences. You clearly state that, for someone to completely barge in and ignore that , is discounting your preference and in a sense discounting you. My reframe is , it's not taking a chance , it's putting their needs to the forefront, while not acknowledging yours. Who needs that from the onset ??? Ok ....for fear of being preachy, pompous and long-winded, I step down off my soap box. Lol ~~


Aaausieguy4448 60M

2/19/2019 9:25 pm

i agree, more please


eagnas234 56M

2/20/2019 12:17 am

it true alot dont read the profiles but also if woman are looking specific person it hard to say what there looking . I feel if women play to much games or they flake out it makes hard for men look women seriously why on here.. but for your answer it's TRUE how can someone be a good lover


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/20/2019 4:49 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    I don't even read the things he says, too pompous , preachy and long winded. At any rate, we all have likes, dislikes and preferences. You clearly state that, for someone to completely barge in and ignore that , is discounting your preference and in a sense discounting you. My reframe is , it's not taking a chance , it's putting their needs to the forefront, while not acknowledging yours. Who needs that from the onset ??? Ok ....for fear of being preachy, pompous and long-winded, I step down off my soap box. Lol ~~
I don't even read the things he says,.... ...Sometimes you should.

too pompous.. ... Not at all pompous , perhaps you are trying to think of another word.

preachy and long winded.... .... Most all my replies , are conversational.....giving you the courtesy of reading what you wrote, thinking about what you said Jajo, and then responding to what you wrote....... you say something, I respond.

At any rate, we all have likes, dislikes and preferences..... That is entirely true.... and that is also why certain people take chances.

for someone to completely barge in and ignore that , is discounting your preference and in a sense discounting you. ....You don't know that for sure, until you communicate with them.

it's not taking a chance , it's putting their needs to the forefront, while not acknowledging yours. .... Again... you don't know that to be a fact.

That's all I have to say on this.... Moving on.


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