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Gonnadoitornot 64M
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10/22/2018 11:26 pm

 As you state, continued personal growth is important.


big_guy2018 55M
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10/22/2018 11:29 pm

 amen your words mean a ton > judging is horrible but that how our society is


RavenGB 63M
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10/22/2018 11:42 pm

 Interesting. I think that what defines a relationship must simply be those in it.

t is sad that you could be brought up feeling any less important because your folks weren't married - society's problem, not yours.

People want different things from their relationships, so one size will not fit all. Another factor is (planned) family - if you want kids, ideally, you should both be on hand to care for them and each other. There is a world of difference between sex and love, of course. It is entirely possible (but I suspect rare) to be in a fully committed, loving relationship and have the security to have sex with others, knowing that nobody will surpass your partner in the web of your relationship (but knowing that a stranger may be a better lover!).

Ultimately, sex is sex. What counts is love and if you are lucky enough to find that then you will stay in a relationship with one person.


Paulxx001 67M
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10/23/2018 12:41 am

 You're right... People don't live in a static world but in one of constant flux and movement. They have to adjust to, and with each other - otherwise... they just grow apart.


Platosgames 102M
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10/23/2018 5:53 am

 This is a very interesting and intelligent post. Kudo's.

I've often believed that we get pushed into thinking what we should "be" as we're growing up. By media, parents, peers, society in general. Being measured by the yardstick of society, instead of what we think is the right path for us.

I know , for myself, as a young man I thought the way to measure my success was clear. Get married, start a family, have a successful career. I don't regret having my kids, love those rascals, but if I had it to do over again? I probably wouldn't have gone the same route.
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