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He said , she said! I am going to attempt to write something here without upsetting the fruit basket, and I am not looking to judge or be judged for it ..just trying to convey a few things that I personally noticed and have a few issues with..Its my issues and not to be reflected on anyone else.. Having a great deal of conversations with many guys over the last couple months and partway through the conversation of course being a sex site the subject does come up..I don't answer personal questions unless I chat with someone quite a few times then I don't give much In the way of information..I feel if its possible I would rather do any personal questions face to face ..some understand and some do not... Lately I am seeing this is the conversation, " well my ex says I am a good kisser" or " my last gf says I am the best she ever had at oral ", " my ex gave me the best Bj's ever " , ok so was she that good that she went and hired herself out to other guys? is that why she called the " ex ?" and then going into detail..like what? I really don't care what your ex gf or ex anything said about how good your are at whatever she says you are good at...lol Why should I? Every woman is different and if that's what you feel is necessary to " get laid " ..wow well good luck with that ! Ok so now guys here's the deal...from a woman's perspective , my perspective , Not many women want to hear things like that , not many women want to view your profile and see you in all sorts of positions with different women..If it is the way you think women will want you more because of that , I am going to piss in your cornflakes every time you open a new box..and yes I get tired of seeing dick pics but I get more disgusted when I see a man who pretends to be an adult screwing other women..its not a jealousy thing , because I rarely get jealous , its more of a projection of the man I don't want to be with...again just my preference no reflection on anyone in particular...real men don't have anything to prove ..which makes them more desirable...so next time you moan about why do women not message back or why you don't get many or no hits...might be time to man up and project yourself ....  |
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2/22/2019 12:30 pm |
Would be nice to get input here from the guys mostly , gals does that happen to you? How do you react?
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2/22/2019 1:12 pm |
Yes, I agree, neither men nor women want to hear about someones ex or even ex girl/boy or past experiences friend! Makes me seem like I'm compared to or have to live up to someone else! Great post, good discussion! 
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2/22/2019 1:32 pm |
If guys tell you about how great their ex thought they were, my question would be why didn't she stay with you. I think you have a right "piss in their cornflakes".
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I love this... thank you so much hun for blogging about this today. And your right this is a sex site but I feel the same way you do. There is a time and place for those kinds of questions.. well said, and I hope you have a great start to your weekend.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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2/22/2019 4:12 pm |
Yes, I agree, neither men nor women want to hear about someones ex or even ex girl/boy or past experiences friend! Makes me seem like I'm compared to or have to live up to someone else! Great post, good discussion!
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2/22/2019 4:14 pm |
If guys tell you about how great their ex thought they were, my question would be why didn't she stay with you. I think you have a right "piss in their cornflakes".
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2/22/2019 4:16 pm |
I love this... thank you so much hun for blogging about this today. And your right this is a sex site but I feel the same way you do. There is a time and place for those kinds of questions.. well said, and I hope you have a great start to your weekend..
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2/22/2019 4:19 pm |
lol I never have been on FB and glad kind of because I probably would get kicked off ha ! I am not a jealous woman I am too much adult for that but seems men are wanting to prove themselves all the time with that crap...gives me shudders to see a profile like that I don't read at all when I see it I am so outta there. thanks sweetheart glad to see yr comment ...
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Agree to the Nth Level. I've lost track of how many times I've heard the high school pick-up lines, or any variation thereof. "My ex says (blah blah blah)", or "I've been told (yadda yadda yadda). Sometimes it feels like a circus I've been to the Three Ring Circus. I've seen all of the side shows. It was entertaining in the beginning. Most times now, however, it's tiring. A real man doesn't have anything to prove. Exactly. "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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2/22/2019 6:46 pm |
Agree to the Nth Level. I've lost track of how many times I've heard the high school pick-up lines, or any variation thereof. "My ex says (blah blah blah)", or "I've been told (yadda yadda yadda). Sometimes it feels like a circus I've been to the Three Ring Circus. I've seen all of the side shows. It was entertaining in the beginning. Most times now, however, it's tiring. A real man doesn't have anything to prove. Exactly.
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make love, not war
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2/22/2019 7:30 pm |
Great post. I have to agree with you and many of the comments here as well. The funny thing is that the men who do that are really showing their hand when they try to "woo" you by providing third party references from exes or post pics of them having sex with other people. I wonder if they really expect us to think or say, "Oh wow, your ex said you were the best? then I'm sold, you MUST be the best. let's get a room and do it right now!" OR "Wow look at how that still shot of him letting that woman suck his cock makes him look like the BEST!" Please. Just don't fellas. The thing we want to hear is what YOU say about you, how you conduct yourself, and how you treat us. "Good" or "The best" is in the eye of the beholder. If you ARE those things, then don't brag or quote others....just BE those things.
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2/23/2019 2:53 am |
make love, not war
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2/23/2019 2:57 am |
Great post. I have to agree with you and many of the comments here as well. The funny thing is that the men who do that are really showing their hand when they try to "woo" you by providing third party references from exes or post pics of them having sex with other people. I wonder if they really expect us to think or say, "Oh wow, your ex said you were the best? then I'm sold, you MUST be the best. let's get a room and do it right now!" OR "Wow look at how that still shot of him letting that woman suck his cock makes him look like the BEST!" Please. Just don't fellas. The thing we want to hear is what YOU say about you, how you conduct yourself, and how you treat us. "Good" or "The best" is in the eye of the beholder. If you ARE those things, then don't brag or quote others....just BE those things.
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Well, I definitely agree with you. Like I keep trying to get my doctors over the years to understand, everyone is different. Your ideal of perfection does not work on me.  And intercourse (verbal or otherwise) is definitely always better in person.That said, weirdly, the tale of WIfey and I is a somewhat counter-intuitive one to this ideal. We met here on JAPANESEGIRLSWINGER.COM. And for a good while, really were just blogging buddies and friends, with no sexual expectations or desires from one another. We were over a thousand miles and over twenty years apart. And as bloggers are wont to do, we kissed (others) and told told limited details of, posting our edited stories on our blogs, and then telling each other the excruciating details, often quite humorous, in private chats. (Like when WIfey was so excited to date a fireman, only to learn that he couldn't handle his hose when it came time to put out her fire. Or her ex boyfriend "Tiny Tim". ) So we really knew each other's peccadilloes. And then one day we met in person and fell in love in spite of ourselves. Since then we've had an amazing relationship, and I think it was the foundation of honesty that really helped to build that. We had nothing to hide because we had already shared it all.So while I do completely agree with you, there's also always the rare exception that proves the rule. But exceptions are just that, rare. And there's still something to be said for having a little class.Even an herb as sweet as basil is nothing without its bite. Lord Basil
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2/24/2019 1:48 pm |
Well, I definitely agree with you. Like I keep trying to get my doctors over the years to understand, everyone is different. Your ideal of perfection does not work on me. And intercourse (verbal or otherwise) is definitely always better in person.That said, weirdly, the tale of WIfey and I is a somewhat counter-intuitive one to this ideal. We met here on JAPANESEGIRLSWINGER.COM. And for a good while, really were just blogging buddies and friends, with no sexual expectations or desires from one another. We were over a thousand miles and over twenty years apart. And as bloggers are wont to do, we kissed (others) and told told limited details of, posting our edited stories on our blogs, and then telling each other the excruciating details, often quite humorous, in private chats. (Like when WIfey was so excited to date a fireman, only to learn that he couldn't handle his hose when it came time to put out her fire. Or her ex boyfriend "Tiny Tim". ) So we really knew each other's peccadilloes. And then one day we met in person and fell in love in spite of ourselves. Since then we've had an amazing relationship, and I think it was the foundation of honesty that really helped to build that. We had nothing to hide because we had already shared it all.So while I do completely agree with you, there's also always the rare exception that proves the rule. But exceptions are just that, rare. And there's still something to be said for having a little class.
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