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bazokajoe86 60M
212 posts
1/27/2019 7:23 am

My answer is no. I made the effort to see them and they didn't make the effort.History has a way of repeating itself.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
1/27/2019 7:28 am

Though I voted the second option, I'd add the caveat that they had to have told me in advance, not left me there waiting and late came with some lame excuse. How long does it take to send a text?

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lickeyzsplit 61M
1516 posts
1/27/2019 7:31 am

Have to say yes ! With a reasonable excuse only once ! Life can very busy and sometimes hectic !! If it happened a second time it would be Fuck Off ! My 2 cents !!


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
1/27/2019 7:40 am

BendMeOver278 replies on 1/27/2019 9:35 am:
This is a they left you there thing.
I sort of assume it's not as big of a deal if plans change before the time and date of them anyways. Maybe I'll make that poll sometime.

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Leaving me hanging is an immediate end. Hell I dumped an EXISTING fuck-buddy when she did THAT - just no excuse.

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hrdallnght4u 67M

1/27/2019 7:41 am

He would have to have a very realistic excuse for not wanting to meet such
a Sexy Lady as You...

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harbor112 64M
1567 posts
1/27/2019 7:56 am

My answer is yes. Because you never know what happens at the last minute. No matter how well you plan to be there. As you know things happens.


bitchkitty2017 71F

1/27/2019 8:08 am

nope anyone only gets a kick at the can once and if they cant take a second to even say why then its them sol...I waited one night 3 hours for someone to show up and have been stood up 17 times in the year I have been here without so much as a explaination or kiss my ass..no one gets a second chance..trust no one..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/27/2019 8:18 am

I said - No.
The excuse - not to text- would have to be, extraterrestrial abduction, for me to think twice. 👽🤔


ilovetoshow4u 47M

1/27/2019 10:54 am

If I like them, I'd give it a second chance


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
1/27/2019 11:54 am

Sure, I'd give him a second chance .... just as soon as he comes out of his coma.

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Lustfulpassion68 51M
112 posts
1/27/2019 12:22 pm

and it better be a damned good reason


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/27/2019 1:02 pm

Yes, if there's a perfectly good reason


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/27/2019 5:01 pm

Another chance? That would be settling for someone
who didn't have enough courtesy to cancel and on what,
the most impressionable date.

Using more than all the road!


Superman4695 39M
168 posts
1/27/2019 5:47 pm

It would have to be a really good reason as for why they could spend 30 seconds to text. I have gotten my phone was broke or I didn't pay my bill from friends and sometimes wonder about those. Yeah people forget stuff, get busy with something they find more important than you maybe, or something bad/unexpected happens or they might not be in the mood to be social. Honesty would be refreshing sometimes.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

1/27/2019 11:01 pm

being that I get so few women who even respond to me like I am a person if she stood me up gave no reason but was still willing to communicate and offered the possibility of a redo I would will to consider it

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


allnitelong2063 60M
233 posts
1/28/2019 7:30 am

Yes but they better have a good excuses


misterflirty4u 45M
75 posts
1/28/2019 12:22 pm

I mean, this is life. Shit happens. However, you can always send a quick text or email because if you don't, then you weren't worried about how missing your meetup would make the other person think about you.


AlexMitz688 31M
37 posts
1/28/2019 12:46 pm

Yes give a second chance, but only if they provide a valid and plausible excuse.


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
1/28/2019 3:51 pm

Nope, for me, a no-show is one strike, he's out.


NudeDon69 54M  
1442 posts
1/28/2019 6:15 pm

I would give her a second chance; if she had a good excuse.

Because sometimes life throws you for a major loop, and you can only hope the other person will be understanding, that you need to get up and brush yourself off before you can hold a cup of coffee, or tea.

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Shots30 48M
2312 posts
1/28/2019 6:31 pm

Pretty much it's one and done for me. I try to be respectful and I would expect others to be as well. If they can't be, then they don't deserve my time, Even with a good excuse and no matter how much I was looking forward to meeting.


wiscofwbplz 43M
8 posts
1/28/2019 10:01 pm

Ha the one and only ,other, vote
it depends how hot said rude person is and how forgiving of a mood I am in and by that I mean desperado's horny
Would fuck that cup of coffee right about now


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
1/29/2019 6:18 am

If you no-show with me you're out, unless you texted me quickly letting me know you couldnt make it.

I have better use of my time and other women to meet who won't no-show on me.


fun2bhadsoon 56M

1/29/2019 7:55 am

a second chance is always a option, but the reason for missing the first, needs to be plausible. Happens a second time, never again!


LordMandrakeJB 67M  
666 posts
1/29/2019 2:20 pm

Actually had this happen to me a few years ago. Was supposed to meet her after almost two months of flirting. No showed. I've always been a one and done. 4 hours later I get a text from her along with a picture and apology. Foot in a brand new cast.... She slipped on the ice and broke her ankle on her way to the date. I got to sign the cast two days later.


robnuotatore 54M

1/29/2019 4:07 pm

definitely no, at least they have a really good reason


pleagain 58M

1/29/2019 5:01 pm

may give them a second chance but ive been burnt so much


shoals 39M  
19 posts
1/29/2019 5:05 pm

Sorry, no second chances. Period.

Ghosting reveals that he/she clearly does not respect your time. Ghosting also means he/she has lied to you. It would be foolish to assume from that point on that he/she has any respect for you at all. We all know where relationships built on disrespect and lies end up, don't we?

Move on. Find someone better. Let them waste someone else's time.


10timz10 106M

1/29/2019 10:35 pm

i realy feel like we all diserve a second chance


AZ60ish 65M

1/31/2019 9:14 am

First meetings are always somewhat iffy, things happen, schedules change, and especially if trying to be DISCREET, sometimes a meeting doesnt happen. I like to give a person a sex cond chance, especially if they are sexy and turn me on! LOL!


PyschoLoco 60M
1550 posts
1/31/2019 6:51 pm

Fuck no. I only ghost women after I least had the decency to meet them

Standards are people too.....kinda


aray2be 64M
248 posts
2/1/2019 9:21 am

Being harsh and unforgiving never ever leads to anything positive. Life is too complicated for simple up or down decision making


Celestaxxx 54F

2/1/2019 2:17 pm

It happened to me because I was using my phone and tablet for IM messages. The texts didn't cross over.


Trio6965 58M

2/1/2019 6:07 pm

No way, I have no time to loose, too bad.


snowey8 68F  
104 posts
2/3/2019 12:50 am

I would give second chance if they had a good reason////////


badboy3819652 59M
147 posts
2/4/2019 1:43 pm

my answer is yes but must have good excuse and a sexy ass like yours


Flyinghigh198 34M

2/5/2019 12:32 am

They don't show they didn't want it. So no.


IVFalternative 52M
630 posts
2/5/2019 3:10 pm

No show means all the burden of the next meet is on them. I won't ask for a meet or go out of my way to meet. Best they can hope for is that I'll let them know when I'm at the pub and that they find me before I meet someone else.

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engcumman 54M
53 posts
2/6/2019 11:51 am

I think you have to allow for the fact that people's lives don't always work out the way they had planned. If shit has happened then them not turning up is probably not the most important thing and being difficult about it can make you look petty.

That said in this day and age with phones in everyone's hands really a message shouldn't be too much to manage.


NotDesper8Horny 62M

2/7/2019 3:00 am

Yes, but only if they give a good reason why.


gymbro2 30M

2/7/2019 2:56 pm

Move on one and done


CuriousCpl6774 56M/50F  
183 posts
2/9/2019 11:43 am

Our honest answer is, we’re not sure. Nobody who has stood us up has ever contacted us again. So, it would depend. Generally, we’re pretty friendly and reasonably forgiving. However, we would not make first contact with someone who stood us up.

Have a great day!


Dsidepo 36M

2/9/2019 8:20 pm

Yes depending on the back story.


couple4fun_STL 56M/47F
24 posts
2/10/2019 6:53 am

I said no, because not showing up is one thing, but no text or phone is not excusable.


Cumhookup69 27M
3 posts
2/11/2019 1:27 am

Well let me get it a try and take you out somewere


coffeeaddiction7 42M
13 posts
2/11/2019 12:19 pm

If there was a good excuse/reason then maybe a reschedule could happen but generally that's a no go. Being stood up is never fun.


cutehubby1967 56M
8 posts
2/15/2019 2:23 am

what a fuckiable babe


LazyDaisy2019 55F
17 posts
2/22/2019 7:28 am

of course not, same with last minute cancels


rm_59winkel59 72M
18 posts
2/22/2019 4:33 pm

Yes, I would give the person a second chance to explain, for what reason the 1st meeting never happend. Give the person you initaially would have met the time to explain. Maybe something really serious has happend, not like I missed the train in time or any other silly blabla reason.


Mrmster90 35M

2/23/2019 11:27 pm

you never know what happened


DOSTIKAROGI19 44M
55 posts
2/24/2019 2:56 am

The reasons must be listened first it it is decent and really logical then why not.


danyel2368 56M

2/24/2019 1:14 pm

Also I give a second chance


WhyNot1001 63M
91 posts
3/7/2019 9:09 am

Hopefully they contacted you with a reason. No contact, no second chance!


fundad197012 53M

3/14/2019 5:33 am

should never give a second chance


Ryan88dude88 39M

3/14/2019 6:10 am

One and done lol, looks like most give second chances on here lol. I find it very disrespectful. Especially not to give a heads up they won’t make it.


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